Guess what happened to me on the way home from school just now............

Original post by Panamasweet

Sep 23, 2010 10:47 PM

I had to pull over because I felt like I was going to throw up....WHY...because I am second guessing getting married. I know its just because the wedding is close but this is crazy. In the year and a half we have been planning this wedding i have been fine. In the almost 9 years that we have been together i have never 2nd guessed being with FH, we even have a child together, but for some reason i have felt like crap today. I woke up this morning questioning this, i did at work all day then in class then on the way home it was so much i had to pull over. I got that nasty naste in mouth and swore my starbucks was on its way up and out....

LORD WHAT IS HAPPENING TO ME

SoonToBeMrsFox Posted: Sep 24, 2010 10:24 AM

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i'm sure it's just nerves.. you'll be ok =)

chreesta Posted: Sep 24, 2010 10:27 AM

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Posted by JLWSJC

Aww, Charonda, I'm sure it's just the nerves of making the biggest committment ever official. Don't worry!

I totally agree!

WeezyGirl2354 Posted: Sep 24, 2010 11:10 AM

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Totally nerves... you have done a sh*t load of planning to get to this point so im sure a part of you is just getting worked up about it all coming together.

your FH did a great job though - I hope he made you feel a lot better hang in there!! everything will be beautiful!!!!!!!!!!!

MrsTarricone2B Posted: Sep 24, 2010 11:13 AM

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Planning a wedding is stressful and it takes a toll on all of us - believe me. Just take a step back from everything and remember what made you fall in love with your FH. I'm sure you will be feeling better in no time. We're here for you

halfbaked Posted: Sep 24, 2010 11:16 AM

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I think it'd be crazier if you DIDN'T have second thoughts! It's completely normal. I spent nights up crying my eyes out wondering if I was doing the righ thing. It's a huge life decision and one that should not be taken lightly! Don't worry, wedding stress is a huge contributing factor! I'm sure you're doing the right thing!

Notwedyet08 Posted: Sep 24, 2010 12:36 PM

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Posted by Jsquared

Honey bunch.. are you sure that wasnt a sign of baby # 2?

hehe just kidding you will be fine !! just nerves im sure.
Sleep on it !

LOL! That was my 1st thought LOL! Sorry!!

Don't worry; it's just nerves; i'm like 12 months out and still feel that same way sometimes!!

It's a big committment!

RFutureBegins2day Posted: Sep 24, 2010 12:50 PM

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You will be fine Charonda!!!! Take it easy.

Panamasweet Posted: Sep 24, 2010 08:17 PM

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thank you ladies. This is an amazing community to be apart of. Where else could I say all of this too. A non-bride could care less.

I am feel much better today and....NO ITS NOT A BABY......no way no how

I think I am just overwhelmed with final appointments and fittings coming up next month. Its just all coming together and very quickly.

Ray8183 Posted: Sep 24, 2010 08:55 PM

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Posted by Panamasweet

thank you ladies. This is an amazing community to be apart of. Where else could I say all of this too. A non-bride could care less.

I am feel much better today and....NO ITS NOT A BABY......no way no how

I think I am just overwhelmed with final appointments and fittings coming up next month. Its just all coming together and very quickly.

JennylovesStephen Posted: Sep 24, 2010 08:55 PM

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Aww Its just nerves they will pass

rendel Posted: Sep 24, 2010 10:19 PM

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I am so sorry!!!!!! I think it happens to everyone and you are def getting really close. Everything will be fine!!!!!!!!!!!!!

TheEyesOfMarch Posted: Sep 24, 2010 10:20 PM

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Posted by LoveyDovey

im sure its just nerves!

you will be ok!

we're here for you tho

I agree, two of our friends had something very similar. There was no doubt about marrying FH but they both were omg nervous the entire week before the wedding.

carangel Posted: Sep 25, 2010 01:30 PM

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no worries, its pre-wedding jitters! we all have them and of coarse you question something like this, its a lifetime commitment and forever life changing! As with anything big and new in life, (having children, purchasing a new home or car, switching jobs), there are always questions...it doesnt make it 'not right', it makes it real!