So today I was figuring out for my MOH how many woman I need to invite for my shower, so that they can narrow down the location of the shower.. I counted 97! How many do you plan to invite?
JeanetteandSteve
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i'm figuring about 30 tops.
but we're only gonna have about 100 guests at our wedding so i'm thinking the shower will be pretty small.
kBr
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nowhere near 90+ lol maybe 30 something?
Cntthinkofone
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Im not sure yet. prob 60+
Kimbalina
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Posted by JeanetteandSteve
i'm figuring about 30 tops.
but we're only gonna have about 100 guests at our wedding so i'm thinking the shower will be pretty small.
We are inviting 225 top the wedding, our minimum is 175, so I want to meet that. But These people I know!!! They are not any one who I am like 'who the heck are you'
bemyyoko
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we have something like 95 woman i'd like to invite... but i think it's insane to expect my MOH to find a place to accomodate that number even though i know a lot of those people wont come i dunno what to do about it.
JTsGal829
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i think while doing a quick count it was 50-70 ... we are inviting 174 ppl to the wedding though. I may be able to do some cuts still.. i guess i have a while to really think about it yet!!
Kimbalina
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Usually theres a good amount who do not come to the shower.... so I am thinking about 50-60 ish.... to attend, but then you can not depend on that
sassygirl9
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well I think about 30 people. But fh has a big family so it will be like a mini wedding
SugaBeans
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i have no idea. i thought you invite all of the females that will be invited to the wedding. is that wrong?
Kimbalina
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I am having all women at my shower. The 'Jack and Jill' showers are the co-ed ones. I have 97 women to invite.
ZCHM08
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150-ish
ZCHM08
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i have no idea. i thought you invite all of the females that will be invited to the wedding. is that wrong?
I am only inviting the females that i'm related to, the FH is related to, or that i know personally. fh is inviting female coworkers to our wedding that i will not be inviting to the shower.
Kimbalina
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WOW, 150 to the shower! I am glad that I am not alone on the higher side
Espo22
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i am scared to do this list lol...FH has a big family, his dads side there were 7 kids and mostly girls so he has a couple of aunts on his dad side, plus his mom has two sisters, then come the cousins, he had 20-something 1st cousins on his dad side alone and even the males most of them are married so have to invite their wives. His side alone will be about 60, then theres my family which isn't big but also my friends. Then alot of close friends girlfriends, wives, fiancee's that i get invited to their showers and all that. Im gonna be hopeful and say 100 but there are chances it will be more
Kimbalina
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Wow! See that is good I am not alone! Thanks Denise!
bella1028
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I am at a high number too...prob 70-80...more than I would have anticipated but once you start counting they just add up
JTsGal829
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yea there aren't too many woman on my list that i wouldn't want there. I have a big family and i am really close to all the woman in FHs family.. and of course my girlfriends... i redid my count after posting and it was about 90 i think as well.. so it really is all the woman invited to the wedding. There is no one i'm inviting to the wedding that i'm not related to or wouldn't want there.. so that makes it hard to cut out for the shower.. my only concern is my BMs and MOH having to find a place for all of them and paying for it I guess i'll have to figure something out!
Kimbalina
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That is my concern, the cost. But I guess they are doing the right thing by looking in advance!