I really thought that the gust list would be one of the funnest parts of planning! DECIDING who is invited and who isn't!!! BUT I have never been more emotional in my LIFE! I guess I always thought my mom would be there to help me with it and now she's not! My dad doesn't know WHAT to do...and i'm a BIG mess!!!
I am having the hardest time putting it together..... I don't know who I should and shouldn't invite and I just feel BLANK!
michellecarin
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definitly make an A, B, and C list. Or cut it down by 'who haven't I spoken to or invited over/ gone out to dinner with in the last year'
Love08
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Sorry your going through that . It's really the hardest thing for me also. Everytime I start to work on it, I turn in to an emotional reck also. So again sorry your going through this, but know your not alone.
DnellD809
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Posted by Love08
Sorry your going through that . It's really the hardest thing for me also. Everytime I start to work on it, I turn in to an emotional reck also. So again sorry your going through this, but know your not alone.
Thanks!!!
SugaBeans
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awwww.... relax! Make a few lists. who you def. want to be there, who you want to invite but have the option to not invite and a list of those who you can use as a back up if people say no. HTH!
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Posted by michellecarin
definitly make an A, B, and C list. Or cut it down by 'who haven't I spoken to or invited over/ gone out to dinner with in the last year'
Thats good advice....FH and I made a sincere attempt at this with my mom...
I took my car out to find the nearest cliff to drive off of.
Open to suggestions!
michellecarin
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I guess I shouldn't be giving advice on this b/c I will be surprised if more than 80 come to my wedding. FH's family will be there b/c they live in Hawaii but I feel like I am asking alot for people to come all the way to Hawaii. It's kinda like a desination wedding but not. I have made an 'A B and C' list but I think I am just gonna invite them all b/c there is no way they are going to all come. I have heard people cutting out those who they haven't spent time with in the past year etc. Good luck!!!
