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T E R I
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:20 AM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:20 AM
Guest List
So this weekend I finally got FH's full guest list from his mom. It was handwritten, so last night I was typing it up in excel so that I could get a better count along with my list count. Our final count as last night is 210
. FH wanted to see this and then he started freaking out about what if everyone says yes that they are coming-our minimum is 150. Then 15 miniutes later, he says that he wants to invite more people-I don't know what I'm going to do with him
Lsorrent
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:22 AM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:22 AM
Re: Guest List
I think 210 for a minimum of 150 is a good number. I've heard the average is to assume around 20% no's. Right now our guest list is around 265 and our minimum is 200. I may have to do a little cutting here and there, or wait to send out the B-listers.
Jenna_and_John
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:23 AM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:23 AM
Re: Guest List
I honestly think that's perfect too, cute how he had a change of heart lol.
T E R I
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:29 AM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:29 AM
Re: Guest List
The guest list is more of his side then mine, I don't have that much family coming, its more friends on my side. So, he realized that he didn't invite any of his racing friends and now he wants to include them tooo-which I don't care-as long as he is happy with it. He just cracks me up with this stuff
CloudNine
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:31 AM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:31 AM
Re: Guest List
the guest list is a scary thing..everytime i cut people, i end up adding more
Jna2010
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:35 AM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:35 AM
Re: Guest List
i think your at a good number for your minimum.... fh does the same thing... complains then adds lolol
rocketsummer17
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:37 AM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:37 AM
Re: Guest List
lol Daryn cracks me up...If you end up inviting around 225 figure around 180-190 will show up, you will always have the people who wont be able to attend. No worries!!
T E R I
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:56 AM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:56 AM
Re: Guest List
Posted by rocketsummer17
lol Daryn cracks me up...If you end up inviting around 225 figure around 180-190 will show up, you will always have the people who wont be able to attend. No worries!!
Seriously he is too funny and explaining to him that people will say no they are not coming was hilarious-he just was not understanding that. I think I should start taping some of our conversations. Only people that know us would understand
CloudNine
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 10:01 AM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 10:01 AM
Re: Guest List
Posted by T E R I
Posted by rocketsummer17
lol Daryn cracks me up...If you end up inviting around 225 figure around 180-190 will show up, you will always have the people who wont be able to attend. No worries!!
Seriously he is too funny and explaining to him that people will say no they are not coming was hilarious-he just was not understanding that. I think I should start taping some of our conversations. Only people that know us would understand![]()
kinda like how the invite proof was too big to magnetize to the fridge lol. its not a STD!!! lol lol
stinenandy2010
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 10:01 AM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 10:01 AM
Re: Guest List
i think that sounds like a good number for a 150 minimum....guest lists are definitely scary!
CloudNine
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 10:01 AM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 10:01 AM
Re: Guest List
Posted by rocketsummer17
lol Daryn cracks me up...If you end up inviting around 225 figure around 180-190 will show up, you will always have the people who wont be able to attend. No worries!!
oh man really? we have 225 and i was hoping on 160-170
T E R I
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 10:06 AM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 10:06 AM
Re: Guest List
Posted by CloudNine
Posted by T E R I
Posted by rocketsummer17
lol Daryn cracks me up...If you end up inviting around 225 figure around 180-190 will show up, you will always have the people who wont be able to attend. No worries!!
Seriously he is too funny and explaining to him that people will say no they are not coming was hilarious-he just was not understanding that. I think I should start taping some of our conversations. Only people that know us would understand![]()
kinda like how the invite proof was too big to magnetize to the fridge lol. its not a STD!!! lol lol
Absolutely!!!!
T E R I
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 10:08 AM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 10:08 AM
Re: Guest List
Posted by stinenandy2010
i think that sounds like a good number for a 150 minimum....guest lists are definitely scary!
I know, I think this is the one thing I am really freaking out about
grrulz
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 11:11 AM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 11:11 AM
Re: Guest List
ugggh fh and i had an argument over the guestlist! our families are both big and we really want to invite our friends too its tough good luck
asg450
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 11:13 AM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 11:13 AM
Re: Guest List
I don't think 210 is too bad, but adding more people will definitely increase your actual number of guests.
rocketsummer17
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 11:16 AM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 11:16 AM
Re: Guest List
Posted by T E R I
Posted by CloudNine
Posted by T E R I
Posted by rocketsummer17
lol Daryn cracks me up...If you end up inviting around 225 figure around 180-190 will show up, you will always have the people who wont be able to attend. No worries!!
Seriously he is too funny and explaining to him that people will say no they are not coming was hilarious-he just was not understanding that. I think I should start taping some of our conversations. Only people that know us would understand![]()
kinda like how the invite proof was too big to magnetize to the fridge lol. its not a STD!!! lol lol
Absolutely!!!!![]()
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i almost i just peed myself a little thinking of that conversation between the two of you!!edited spelling
JenBill61210
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 12:09 PM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 12:09 PM
Re: Guest List
honestly i think you are fine with the guest list, i woudn't worry about being totally over your minimum because i have heard that there has been more and more 'no's' lately from the economy, etc.
soontobecruz
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 12:23 PM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 12:23 PM
Re: Guest List
out guest list is about 210 and our minimum is 165... I am not going to worry about it. If I am under I am just going to ask the RH to throw some extras in....
JoanneAndJustin
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 07:27 PM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 07:27 PM
Re: Guest List
Our minimum is 110, and our guest list is 185 or so, but FHs family is from FL and we don't think a lot of them will show. SO, we're just inviting everyone and we'll see what happens.
RitasEngaged
Posted: Apr 14, 2009 07:55 PM+

Posted: Apr 14, 2009 07:55 PM
Re: Guest List
sounds like my FHYou should be inviting around 190 -200 for a 150 min so you should be find. 170 won't be major
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