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T E R I Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:20 AM+
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Guest List

So this weekend I finally got FH's full guest list from his mom. It was handwritten, so last night I was typing it up in excel so that I could get a better count along with my list count. Our final count as last night is 210 . FH wanted to see this and then he started freaking out about what if everyone says yes that they are coming-our minimum is 150.

Then 15 miniutes later, he says that he wants to invite more people-I don't know what I'm going to do with him
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Lsorrent Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:22 AM+
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Re: Guest List

I think 210 for a minimum of 150 is a good number. I've heard the average is to assume around 20% no's. Right now our guest list is around 265 and our minimum is 200. I may have to do a little cutting here and there, or wait to send out the B-listers.
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Jenna_and_John Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:23 AM+
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Re: Guest List

I honestly think that's perfect too, cute how he had a change of heart lol.
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T E R I Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:29 AM+
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Re: Guest List

The guest list is more of his side then mine, I don't have that much family coming, its more friends on my side. So, he realized that he didn't invite any of his racing friends and now he wants to include them tooo-which I don't care-as long as he is happy with it. He just cracks me up with this stuff
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CloudNine Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:31 AM+
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Re: Guest List

the guest list is a scary thing..everytime i cut people, i end up adding more
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Jna2010 Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:35 AM+
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Re: Guest List

i think your at a good number for your minimum.... fh does the same thing... complains then adds lolol
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rocketsummer17 Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:37 AM+
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Re: Guest List

lol Daryn cracks me up...If you end up inviting around 225 figure around 180-190 will show up, you will always have the people who wont be able to attend. No worries!!
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T E R I Posted: Apr 14, 2009 09:56 AM+
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Re: Guest List


Posted by rocketsummer17

lol Daryn cracks me up...If you end up inviting around 225 figure around 180-190 will show up, you will always have the people who wont be able to attend. No worries!!



Seriously he is too funny and explaining to him that people will say no they are not coming was hilarious-he just was not understanding that. I think I should start taping some of our conversations. Only people that know us would understand
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CloudNine Posted: Apr 14, 2009 10:01 AM+
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Re: Guest List


Posted by T E R I


Posted by rocketsummer17

lol Daryn cracks me up...If you end up inviting around 225 figure around 180-190 will show up, you will always have the people who wont be able to attend. No worries!!



Seriously he is too funny and explaining to him that people will say no they are not coming was hilarious-he just was not understanding that. I think I should start taping some of our conversations. Only people that know us would understand




kinda like how the invite proof was too big to magnetize to the fridge lol. its not a STD!!! lol lol
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stinenandy2010 Posted: Apr 14, 2009 10:01 AM+
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Re: Guest List

i think that sounds like a good number for a 150 minimum....guest lists are definitely scary!
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CloudNine Posted: Apr 14, 2009 10:01 AM+
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Re: Guest List


Posted by rocketsummer17

lol Daryn cracks me up...If you end up inviting around 225 figure around 180-190 will show up, you will always have the people who wont be able to attend. No worries!!


oh man really? we have 225 and i was hoping on 160-170
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T E R I Posted: Apr 14, 2009 10:06 AM+
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Re: Guest List


Posted by CloudNine


Posted by T E R I


Posted by rocketsummer17

lol Daryn cracks me up...If you end up inviting around 225 figure around 180-190 will show up, you will always have the people who wont be able to attend. No worries!!



Seriously he is too funny and explaining to him that people will say no they are not coming was hilarious-he just was not understanding that. I think I should start taping some of our conversations. Only people that know us would understand




kinda like how the invite proof was too big to magnetize to the fridge lol. its not a STD!!! lol lol



Absolutely!!!!
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T E R I Posted: Apr 14, 2009 10:08 AM+
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Re: Guest List


Posted by stinenandy2010

i think that sounds like a good number for a 150 minimum....guest lists are definitely scary!



I know, I think this is the one thing I am really freaking out about
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grrulz Posted: Apr 14, 2009 11:11 AM+
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Re: Guest List

ugggh fh and i had an argument over the guestlist! our families are both big and we really want to invite our friends too its tough good luck
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asg450 Posted: Apr 14, 2009 11:13 AM+
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Re: Guest List

I don't think 210 is too bad, but adding more people will definitely increase your actual number of guests.
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rocketsummer17 Posted: Apr 14, 2009 11:16 AM+
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Re: Guest List


Posted by T E R I


Posted by CloudNine


Posted by T E R I


Posted by rocketsummer17

lol Daryn cracks me up...If you end up inviting around 225 figure around 180-190 will show up, you will always have the people who wont be able to attend. No worries!!



Seriously he is too funny and explaining to him that people will say no they are not coming was hilarious-he just was not understanding that. I think I should start taping some of our conversations. Only people that know us would understand




kinda like how the invite proof was too big to magnetize to the fridge lol. its not a STD!!! lol lol



Absolutely!!!!



i almost i just peed myself a little thinking of that conversation between the two of you!!
edited spelling
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JenBill61210 Posted: Apr 14, 2009 12:09 PM+
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Re: Guest List

honestly i think you are fine with the guest list, i woudn't worry about being totally over your minimum because i have heard that there has been more and more 'no's' lately from the economy, etc.
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soontobecruz Posted: Apr 14, 2009 12:23 PM+
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Re: Guest List

out guest list is about 210 and our minimum is 165... I am not going to worry about it. If I am under I am just going to ask the RH to throw some extras in....
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JoanneAndJustin Posted: Apr 14, 2009 07:27 PM+
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Re: Guest List

Our minimum is 110, and our guest list is 185 or so, but FHs family is from FL and we don't think a lot of them will show. SO, we're just inviting everyone and we'll see what happens.
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RitasEngaged Posted: Apr 14, 2009 07:55 PM+
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Re: Guest List

sounds like my FH

You should be inviting around 190 -200 for a 150 min so you should be find. 170 won't be major
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