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Guest list question

Fate Posted:

Guest list question

Our guest list is growng daily, we are up to about 250 guests. My question is, do you think it is ok for FI to invite his co workers without a guest? There is about 9 of them so they would make a table themselves, but is it ok to have a 'work table'?

Thanks any advice would be helpful!!!
habs Posted:

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Unless they are married or have a serious significant other, definitely ok! That's what I'm doing!

AMGBride2008 Posted:

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Although they might have a great time together without dates because they all know each other, I think you should invite them with guest. I think it's the right thing to do and if we're talking etiquette-wise they should be invited with guest.

D's Girl Posted:

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IMO, I would invite them with a guest if you can swing it. I am sure some have significant others and would like them to attend the Wedding as well.

thelastMrsG Posted:

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Posted by KimAMalone

Although they might have a great time together without dates because they all know each other, I think you should invite them with guest. I think it's the right thing to do and if we're talking etiquette-wise they should be invited with guest.




I have to agree...
LuckySevens Posted:

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Posted by habs

Unless they are married or have a serious significant other, definitely ok! That's what I'm doing!



us too.
ali120206 Posted:

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If they do not have a serious significant other, there's no problem in inviting them alone.

One thing I suggest though (from lots of experience of being an invitee) is that you have your FH explain why (guest list is insane). A lot of people, even if they are single, get really bent if they are invited alone to a wedding when they are expecting to be invited with a guest.
MJDoc12 Posted:

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Posted by KimAMalone

Although they might have a great time together without dates because they all know each other, I think you should invite them with guest. I think it's the right thing to do and if we're talking etiquette-wise they should be invited with guest.



same here. we're inviting everyone with a guest....because i know i would hate to be invited to someone's wedding by myself, whether i know people there or not. but that's just me!
NY031978 Posted:

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Posted by habs

Unless they are married or have a serious significant other, definitely ok! That's what I'm doing!





i agree!!! if they are married id def think you need to have his/her other 1/2 there. Think about it would you be ok w/ not being included too his coworkers events?!
eden Posted:

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True, I have skipped weddings where I'm not invited with 'guest' 'cus it's not as fun going alone.

kittythestray Posted:

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Posted by LuckySevens


Posted by habs

Unless they are married or have a serious significant other, definitely ok! That's what I'm doing!



us too.



Us also - I even 'warned them' that I wasn't going to be able to invite them with a guest and I completely understood if they didn't want to attend. It worked out because only 2 of 10 are married so they were invited with their spouse - none of the others are even dating anyone & they were all cool about it.
IlianaR Posted:

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Posted by thelastMrsG


Posted by KimAMalone

Although they might have a great time together without dates because they all know each other, I think you should invite them with guest. I think it's the right thing to do and if we're talking etiquette-wise they should be invited with guest.




I have to agree...




ME too

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