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Guest List Remorse?

butrfly1rm Posted:

Guest List Remorse?

Anyone else freaking out a bit and regretting inviting so many people??

FH and I invited a whopping 318! So far, I've gotten 60 yes and 2 no. I'm freaking out a little bit! We're hoping for 250 max to attend... and would actually LOVE a little less!

I'm regretting inviting so many people now that I'm realizing that what we want may not be what we get!

AHHH freaking out... so much money...should have thought this through!

stefaniec84 Posted:

Guest List Remorse? - Long Island Weddings

Don't freak out just yet...you'll get most of your No's closer to the RSVP date!

RoandJoe Posted:

Guest List Remorse? - Long Island Weddings

I definitely am. We originally estimated a 300+ guest wedding. Now that we actually came off of that cloud, we are realizing the cost and bugging out. We chopped the list down to 215, but we are hoping to just meet our 200 guest minimum!

butrfly1rm Posted:

Guest List Remorse? - Long Island Weddings

ahh! I' kind of wishing we chopped ours too! I'm thinking the no's don't come right away... fingers crossed!

cets1290 Posted:

Guest List Remorse? - Long Island Weddings

you usually get alot of yesses in the beginning, and then a ton of people don't RSVP and you have to contact them.. those people are usually no's... expect alot of no's closer to the rsvp date :)

Terriechick Posted:

Guest List Remorse? - Long Island Weddings

Remorse big time here.. I am freaking that I may not get any no's and my room will be overcrowded.. It is an awful ptit fof your stomach feeling!! LOL.. I totally here you girl!! Fingers crossed for us all!!
Oh PS my mom is already saying your first five nos I want to invite my B list.. I am like no my first 18 no's are staying nos.. Then after that we will talk if I get anymore..LOL
Beebs1616 Posted:

Guest List Remorse? - Long Island Weddings

I hear ya. We invited 285. My future in-laws already called me to tell me that they have people to invite if anyone says no. I don't want that many guests, I'm hoping there are a few no's.

butrfly1rm Posted:

Guest List Remorse? - Long Island Weddings

ahh

trinionli Posted:

Guest List Remorse?

315??? I couldn't even imagine. We started with 200, 100 from each side. I just chopped my list down to 73...… he needs to start chopping too. Lol.

trinionli Posted:

Guest List Remorse?

315??? I couldn't even imagine. We started with 200, 100 from each side. I just chopped my list down to 73...… he needs to start chopping too. Lol.

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