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Guest List Remorse?

butrfly1rm Posted: Jan 14, 2014 11:35 AM+

butrfly1rm MEMBER SINCE: 8/13 TOTAL POSTS : 1037 WEDDING DATE: Mar 15, 2014

Posted: Jan 14, 2014 11:35 AM

Guest List Remorse?

Anyone else freaking out a bit and regretting inviting so many people??

FH and I invited a whopping 318! So far, I've gotten 60 yes and 2 no. I'm freaking out a little bit! We're hoping for 250 max to attend... and would actually LOVE a little less!

I'm regretting inviting so many people now that I'm realizing that what we want may not be what we get!

AHHH freaking out... so much money...should have thought this through!

stefaniec84 Posted: Jan 14, 2014 11:58 AM+

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Posted: Jan 14, 2014 11:58 AM

Guest List Remorse? - Long Island Weddings

Don't freak out just yet...you'll get most of your No's closer to the RSVP date!

RoandJoe Posted: Jan 14, 2014 12:10 PM+

RoandJoe MEMBER SINCE: 9/12 TOTAL POSTS : 1726 WEDDING DATE: Nov 15, 2014

Posted: Jan 14, 2014 12:10 PM

Guest List Remorse? - Long Island Weddings

I definitely am. We originally estimated a 300+ guest wedding. Now that we actually came off of that cloud, we are realizing the cost and bugging out. We chopped the list down to 215, but we are hoping to just meet our 200 guest minimum!

butrfly1rm Posted: Jan 14, 2014 12:12 PM+

butrfly1rm MEMBER SINCE: 8/13 TOTAL POSTS : 1037 WEDDING DATE: Mar 15, 2014

Posted: Jan 14, 2014 12:12 PM

Guest List Remorse? - Long Island Weddings

ahh! I' kind of wishing we chopped ours too! I'm thinking the no's don't come right away... fingers crossed!

cets1290 Posted: Jan 14, 2014 03:32 PM+

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Posted: Jan 14, 2014 03:32 PM

Guest List Remorse? - Long Island Weddings

you usually get alot of yesses in the beginning, and then a ton of people don't RSVP and you have to contact them.. those people are usually no's... expect alot of no's closer to the rsvp date :)

Terriechick Posted: Jan 14, 2014 05:23 PM+

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Posted: Jan 14, 2014 05:23 PM

Guest List Remorse? - Long Island Weddings

Remorse big time here.. I am freaking that I may not get any no's and my room will be overcrowded.. It is an awful ptit fof your stomach feeling!! LOL.. I totally here you girl!! Fingers crossed for us all!!
Oh PS my mom is already saying your first five nos I want to invite my B list.. I am like no my first 18 no's are staying nos.. Then after that we will talk if I get anymore..LOL

Beebs1616 Posted: Jan 15, 2014 07:46 AM+

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Posted: Jan 15, 2014 07:46 AM

Guest List Remorse? - Long Island Weddings

I hear ya. We invited 285. My future in-laws already called me to tell me that they have people to invite if anyone says no. I don't want that many guests, I'm hoping there are a few no's.

butrfly1rm Posted: Jan 15, 2014 10:45 AM+

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Posted: Jan 15, 2014 10:45 AM