Hey Guys, I am having a little guest list issue. Last year, I was working at another job and had sent out Save the Dates to ppl I worked with...now I will be at my new job a year in May. I was close with a few ppl but now that I am not seeing these ppl at work everyday..we have grown distant. I have talked/seen them maybe twice since I worked at my old job...do I still invite them?
regy_k
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I have a very similar problem. someone left the job and I gave them the STD, and I just felt the right thing to do was to send an invite and if they want to they will come, if not then I totally understand
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This is exactly why I didn't give people at work an STD, just in case. But if I were you I would still give them an invite just because I think that it's the right thing to do since you already gave them an STD. Hopefully they'll feel the same way that you feel and respond no!
vv117
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you invite them bc you don't want be that story of a girl who sent STDs and didn't follow through. if you have grown apart, then they won't come.
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Posted by SoonToBMrsC
This is exactly why I didn't give people at work an STD, just in case. But if I were you I would still give them an invite just because I think that it's the right thing to do since you already gave them an STD. Hopefully they'll feel the same way that you feel and respond no!
agree!!!
SummerBride10
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Send it anyway...its the right thing
April_Luv
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Yes invite them. It would look tacky if you send a std and no invite to follow. They would def remember that...
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Posted by SoonToBMrsC
This is exactly why I didn't give people at work an STD, just in case. But if I were you I would still give them an invite just because I think that it's the right thing to do since you already gave them an STD. Hopefully they'll feel the same way that you feel and respond no!
I agree and was in the same situation. I sent them out anyway.
Diana12
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I think you should send the invite. It's weird to send a STD and not an invite.
marinai7
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I would just sent an invite and if you're not close, they probably won't come.
Jna2010
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yes i would still invite them, if you dont speakmuch with them chances are they wont even come
StaceyWill
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I would send the invite and let them decide if they want to go or not
jcreilly
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You should send them an invite!
miamimerger
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nope. it's your wedding, do what you want.
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Posted by vv117
you invite them bc you don't want be that story of a girl who sent STDs and didn't follow through. if you have grown apart, then they won't come.
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mariedsgn
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I did not send anyone I work with an STD because of this. . . . I would just invite them since you sent them the std.
halfbaked
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Send it, they probably won't even come!
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Posted by miamimerger
nope. it's your wedding, do what you want.
i agree .... i probably wouldn't invite that person.