Guests...

Gracie821 Posted: Sep 16, 2008 10:08 PM

Guests...

FH has 3 single guys friends, one is in the BP so I'm assuming it would be the right thing to invite him with a guest, he has an on again off again gf that I do not really like, she always flirts with fh, fh ignores her, but it's still annoying. The other two do not have gf's but are known for always choosing a ceratin type (slutty). I do not want these types of guys at my wedding just getting drunk. I was wondering if I could get away with not inviting them with a guest. What do you ladies think am I'm being out of line here? I don't really know what to do and would really appreciate any advice! TIA

Espo22 Posted: Sep 16, 2008 10:13 PM

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what about all the other guests, do the single ones get to bring a guest? if EVERYONE else does then i think they should too, can't single out 2 ppl. If nobody else is really getting and guest then its fine.

Also, let me just say that not all single ppl bring a date. MOST of my single guests came alone even though i invited them with a guest. Infact maybe 1 or 2 single ppl brought a date but thats it. Especially guys, they think weddings are a good place to pick up chicks so they might want to come alone ask your fh if he thinks his friends would bring a date. He knows them well and should at least guess what they would do. I knew my single friends and knew dh's single friends and even before i got back their rsvp's i knew they were coming alone. Its what they do for other events too

Gracie821 Posted: Sep 16, 2008 10:17 PM

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they are the only 2 besides 2 bp members, so is it not ok to allow bp members to bring a guest but not them? I totally know they would bring a date since there will not be a lot of single people there. Thanks for your adive any more would be greatly appreciated!

Espo22 Posted: Sep 16, 2008 10:20 PM

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsR

they are the only 2 besides 2 bp members, so is it not ok to allow bp members to bring a guest but not them? I totally know they would bring a date since there will not be a lot of single people there. Thanks for your adive any more would be greatly appreciated!

well then if you want tell them bc of limited space, single guests will not be allowed with a guest. Have your fh appologize and say he is sorry. Say you made the exception for bp only. I am sure they'll get over it, they'll have eachother hahaha

meara Posted: Sep 17, 2008 12:47 AM

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I think that's fine. . and also b/c the wedding is a long way off they may not even be single by then but for now I would think it is fine just to invite them on their own. You could always add dates if in 7 months they are serious with someone.

beram63 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 05:17 AM

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i'm only giving guests to people in the BP & those in established relationships. i feel no guilt about this decision. one word of advise though--draw a line in thesand and hold everyone to the same standard. you can't invite your single girlfriend with a guest and then get stingy w/ FH's friends. if they figure it out, it could get messy.