....my FH has looked so down and mopey lately. He doesn't want to tell me whats wrong and I fear it has something to do with my arguing and bickering. When he comes home he just goes on his computer and downloads music or watches TV. He has his own business and I haven't really seen him work on that in the last few days. I am so worried. This is so stressing me out. What should I do? I tried talking to him but he said nothing is wrong. But i know him and I know something is wrong.
MCDO15
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Re: Guys I need some advice....
a mild stab at this.
Somedays when you have your gut feeling about something however, he is saying another thing... you need to beleive him. Ask him if you did anything wrong and most importantly, make sure you have open commications about things. if you can't talk now about topics, what makes you think when your married you can talk about it...
Try going out one night for dinner and take a step back from everything and talk
jnrrb
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Re: Guys I need some advice....
Posted by MCDO15
a mild stab at this.
Somedays when you have your gut feeling about something however, he is saying another thing... You need to beleive him. Ask him if you did anything wrong and most importantly, make sure you have open commications about things. if you can't talk now about topics, what makes you think when your married you can talk about it...
Try going out one night for dinner and take a step back from everything and talk
This is good advice, the both of you really need open commutation.
I am just like you FH, I hate talking about things when I am feeling stressed but the best thing to do is talk it out BUT try not to fight with him.
Going out on a date would be great for the both of you. Some place active (not a movie) where the both of you can eat/drink, talk and move around. If you don't have to, don't talk about the wedding, but if the wedding is the problem then you should lay it all out on the table and try to solve his problem.
