Had REALLY Bad day at work...

I just really need to vent ladies....

I HATE my job,the smuck I work with and being in retail!!!! .....this is how I felt today first I was so angry then I started to feel sick and thought I was going to pass out and now I am starting to cry!!

I feel so stuck because of this stupid big wedding I had to have that I can't even give in my 2 weeks until Oct 9th. I soooo wished i had listen to my dad and we just eloped and I could tell them all to f*ck off!! And it is all because the other manager I work with is a 48 salary manager and I am an 32-36 hourly Manager and he hates it (also he is a year older than my dad and i know it kills him that we are at the same level). He is required to work 6 days and I am of course not. Now in Late Feb-early March I needed to have 3 Saturdays off in a row for wedding stuff and in April I had 3 off ( 2 because I was on vacation and 1 because it worked out better the schedule).

Now today I left 1 hour early (at 5) because we are over in hours and they will chop our heads off if we go over. Next week I am working 10-4 (we close at 6) because again it worked out better for the schedule. Now he is never at anytime alone in the store there is always someone with him so it's not like I am leaving him all alone. So he says to me this morning why I think I can leave at 4 and not at 6 ( Umm your not my boss). Then it just goes on from there and we get into this big fight in front of customers (not my doing) and he then tells me 'he Expects me to be at work from 9:30 to 6 next Sat'

Now this IDIOT has no authority over me but about 6 years ago he was the District Manager (but the a**hole got demoted because he couldn't even do that right) but he still likes to think he is mine!! So the whole day we didn't speak to each other and my boss was suppose to come to talk to us but she couldn't make it. I can hopefully ask for a transfer but most of the stores are out east and I live in Farmingdale but I don't even care at this point. There is of course more to it but I think this vent is long enough. Thank all for listening...even writing it kinda ease the pain. 5 more months and I am out of jail!!

Where do you work? I'll make like I am shopping & kick him in his shins!!


Seriously, we all go through rough times during our planning, giving up shopping, dinners out, maybe taking on a job we hate, some work 2 jobs...just smile & think in a few months, it's all over & how worth it, this all really is.

Tough it out. Ignore him as much as possible. Just keep saying to yourself, Five months to go!!!
Good Luck !!

He's on a stupid power trip! I'd say ignore him but that isn't an option. Just work through and and count down the days until you are honeymooning

can i come to your store and start telling everyone in the store how wonderful you are and that you were very helpful and should be employee of the lifetime. Then with Jenn will kick the guy in the shins

Dont stress. We all have days like that. But we're all here to listen

In a few months it will all be over

Thank you ladies I can't even begin to tell you how much that helps

I'm going to have to stick it out otherwise we will be having the wedding in my dad's backyard. I have been telling myself the whole 'only ## so more months for about 1 1/2 yrs now and it seems like it is taking forever. I just feel very overwelmed and because of how this idiot aggrevates me on a daily basis little things with the wedding just stress me out even more because I am already way to stressed out.

I work in retail....it SUCKS!

Any chance you can look for another job, Oct.? I know how it feels to be miserable every day at work because of coworkers-- no fun! For the sake of your mental health, if you can find another job... do it!

I used to work in retail and it really really really really SUCKS!
The stuff that is going on with you is why I left. Hang in for the next couple of months and then split!