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dream426 Posted:

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Is everyone telling their bridesmaids how to wear their hair or are you letting them do what they want to do?

jteach711 Posted:

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I really dont care some want it up and some want it down. My bp is hot, they'll look amazing anyway. But I have been in wedding where the bride wanted all of our hair up, I completely understood and it looked nice, so whatever you imagine for that day I would do. I wouldn't worry about your bp caring.

jteach711 Posted:

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I think we might be the only 2 fools awake right now

dream426 Posted:

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HAHA I know.

MikeandJess Posted:

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nope, I'm awake too (unfortunately). At first I was telling them I want their hair all up but then I realized it's a little rude of me to tell them how I want them to wear their hair that they are paying for.
dream426 Posted:

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Posted by MikeandJess

nope, I'm awake too (unfortunately). At first I was telling them I want their hair all up but then I realized it's a little rude of me to tell them how I want them to wear their hair that they are paying for.


Thats how I feel. Then as a gift I was going to pay for it but I just don't have the money to do that. And what if they want to use someone different. I think I am just going to tell them to do what they want with their hair.
dream426 Posted:

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Thanks girls for your help. I love this website
megzzie Posted:

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I'm going to let my BMs wear their hair however they want to

dream426 Posted:

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Posted by megzzie

I'm going to let my BMs wear their hair however they want to


Yeah I think I have decided to that also. Plus if I tell them to all do updos it might take awhile. I think it would just be better and unselfish if I tell them to do what they are most comfortable with and what they want.
MikeandJess Posted:

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Posted by dream426

Posted by MikeandJess

nope, I'm awake too (unfortunately). At first I was telling them I want their hair all up but then I realized it's a little rude of me to tell them how I want them to wear their hair that they are paying for.


Thats how I feel. Then as a gift I was going to pay for it but I just don't have the money to do that. And what if they want to use someone different. I think I am just going to tell them to do what they want with their hair.


I know, I wanted to pay for it too but it's definitely too expensive, I'm going to get them matching necklaces
dream426 Posted:

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Posted by MikeandJess

Posted by dream426

Posted by MikeandJess

nope, I'm awake too (unfortunately). At first I was telling them I want their hair all up but then I realized it's a little rude of me to tell them how I want them to wear their hair that they are paying for.


Thats how I feel. Then as a gift I was going to pay for it but I just don't have the money to do that. And what if they want to use someone different. I think I am just going to tell them to do what they want with their hair.


I know, I wanted to pay for it too but it's definitely too expensive, I'm going to get them matching necklaces


Yeah I am making a bag for them with their names on it I think not sure on that part yet. I am going to put matching necklace and earrings for them to wear on the day of the wedding and flip flops that match the dress so if they want to be comfortable at the wedding.
sassygirl9 Posted:

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Posted by dream426

Is everyone telling their bridesmaids how to wear their hair or are you letting them do what they want to do?

Well I gues I am the bridezilla, I want them all to wear it up. I told them I don't care how, but keep it up until the reception. After that they can do what they want with it
KSquared Posted:

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I'm going to strongly suggest that my girls wear their hair up. Mine is going to be down and I just like the contrast.
dream426 Posted:

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Posted by KSquared

I'm going to strongly suggest that my girls wear their hair up. Mine is going to be down and I just like the contrast.


Mine is most likely going to be up but I don't know if I want them to wear theirs down. I think I would feel the same way as you though if I was wearing my hair down.
SugaBeans Posted:

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if i got what I wanted they would all have a french twist but some want it up and some want it down so i think i will say they can do what they want.

Autumn08 Posted:

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Personally micro managing is not my style. As a pp mentioned it does look nice but to me it means more to have everyone look and feel beautiful and confidant. I guess it really depends. My MOH has short hair so it's not likely they can all have the same style anyway. Mention it to them and see what they think. Maybe everyone can agree on something and you will all be happy. Let us know how it goes.
Snowflake08 Posted:

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Posted by MikeandJess

nope, I'm awake too (unfortunately). At first I was telling them I want their hair all up but then I realized it's a little rude of me to tell them how I want them to wear their hair that they are paying for.


i agree jess and they have to feel comfortable
glad you changes your mind
dream426 Posted:

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I am so glad I asked this question. You girls helped me out so much. Thank you.

Jesses Girl Posted:

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lettin them do whaqt they want but if they ask a suggestion i can help them

im not about being a dictator! haha i just want them to look the way they think they look good. not everyone looks good in an up do...

dream426 Posted:

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Posted by Jesses Girl

lettin them do whaqt they want but if they ask a suggestion i can help them

im not about being a dictator! haha i just want them to look the way they think they look good. not everyone looks good in an up do...



That is so true. I didn't even think of that. Thank you.

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