Hair Help !

I need help ! I have long curly hair.
But if I leave it curly for the wedding, I'm basically going to look like I showered and put my wedding gown on...... - No matter how many trials I have w/ my natural curls, it always ends up looking like it's in a neat ponytail !! -
Any ideas or pictures of what I can do w/o DRASTICALLY straightening it - I'd like it to be a little bit more 'natural' ..........Thanks !!!