Hair help

So I had a roller coaster of a day today. I got a call this morning telling me that the invitations I ordered are back-ordered, so now it should be an extra few weeks! Good thing I ordered them early enough. Then I went to the florist and planned out the cps and all. I was very happy with everything, even the price! Now I am freaking out because I am having a dilemma...I know you all can help. I am not wearing a veil of any sort, and plan on wearing my hair up. I was thinking of putting a few flowers in my hair BUT I picked all bright, cheery flowers for everything. Bright pink Gerber daisies, sunflowers, etc...you get the point. Not made for delicate hair flowers. Any ideas on what I could do to 'bride' up my hair. Tiaras are not an option either. TIA

If you are looking for flowers but not the regular type what about something like this? I wore this for TWOTY and thought it was just so pretty..it is a Thomas Knoell piece!

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