has anyone..

Less than one month!! Keep repeating that!!

oh no - whats going on????

i had issues with mine in the sense that she would tell us one thing at one meeting and then have a diff story at the next meeting
but in the end the day was amazing

crashing ....

yes, i hated my BM ... she was a little rude to us and not very helpful at all.

Then she 'couldn't be there' for my food tasting so she scheduled someone else to do it for us and we really clicked with him.

We asked him that day to be our BM instead of her and he said it was fine (and he also told our original BM so we never had to have that awkward conversation with her).

after we changed BMs, we were much happier and got a few extra freebies thrown in too


ETA: we switched about a month before our wedding

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Posted by pjc92980

oh no - whats going on????

i had issues with mine in the sense that she would tell us one thing at one meeting and then have a diff story at the next meeting
but in the end the day was amazing

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this!

i'm sick of them making up different rules for different couples.

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

crashing ....

yes, i hated my BM ... she was a little rude to us and not very helpful at all.

Then she 'couldn't be there' for my food tasting so she scheduled someone else to do it for us and we really clicked with him.

We asked him that day to be our BM instead of her and he said it was fine (and he also told our original BM so we never had to have that awkward conversation with her).

after we changed BMs, we were much happier and got a few extra freebies thrown in too

ETA: we switched about a month before our wedding

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lately, she has been really snippy -- constantly brushing off my questions or having an attitude. my fiance now hates her.

if she doesn't get her shtt together soon and by soon, i mean today, i will ask to switch bms b/c we're paying a lot of money and shouldn't be treated this way.

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsFox

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

crashing ....

yes, i hated my BM ... she was a little rude to us and not very helpful at all.

Then she 'couldn't be there' for my food tasting so she scheduled someone else to do it for us and we really clicked with him.

We asked him that day to be our BM instead of her and he said it was fine (and he also told our original BM so we never had to have that awkward conversation with her).

after we changed BMs, we were much happier and got a few extra freebies thrown in too

ETA: we switched about a month before our wedding

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lately, she has been really snippy -- constantly brushing off my questions or having an attitude. my fiance now hates her.

if she doesn't get her shtt together soon and by soon, i mean today, i will ask to switch bms b/c we're paying a lot of money and shouldn't be treated this way.

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believe me, we were sooo happy we switched! we felt a little awkward afterwards though, but that was short-lived ....

just make sure the person you're switching to is not worse than the original!