CRAZY??? I know I dont post on here often but I could really use some opinions here....
Ive been engaged since xmas '04...all of '05 I was so relaxed about the whole wedding....honestly, I didnt give it much thought and I was really proud of myself for not being a 'bridezilla' and just going with the flow............
Now? Forget it....all I ever think about is this wedding and I dream about it every night....I feel like I have no time left and everything is going to go wrong. Honestly I cant wait until the wedding is over so I dont have to worry anymore.
I almost wish I planned my wedding sooner b/c its going to be a long way to Sept. with this much anxiety. And that has nothing to do with FH, I want to get married I just dont want to be worrying if the limos will be on time, if I will get everything in on time that I need for my church, if the flowers will be what I expected..blah...blah..blah...
Anyone else feel this way with the turn of the year or am I crazy?
SuzBride
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Yes. I go back and forth between stressed out (eek it is almost February), overjoyed (I am getting married!) and denial (there is still so long). I already get butterflies - I am going to be a mess in June and July!
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I can't wait til after the wedding - I almost feel like - what will I worry about after June 17th? Although, knowing me, there is never a shortage of things to stress about (ummm - yoga, anyone???)
MayBride06
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yes, all of a sudden i have anxiety and have become very stressed out!!
Awhite80
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Yes. VERY! I am usually so organized, but now I feel my life is chaotic. I know it doesn't help that im moving 3500 miles way for five months (leave in 4 days). But I am definitely feeling stressed.
mka06
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Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have most stuff done and all of a sudden I feel like I have a TON left and not a lot of time. It's craaaazy.
ewickens
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YES!!!! I am in a similiar situation!!! I didn't do much and now we're less than 8 months away and there seems to be no end in sight! Luckily, my FH has a steady head and has calmed me down on more than one occasion and said we will get through everything in time. I can't imagine going through this with anybody else but him!
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Whats starting to freak me out is that my family and my friends are becoming more 'involved' and curious about the wedding. Everytime we get together everyone wants to know the details etc...its weird because before when I wanted to talk about it all the time no one was really interested...now its like whoa!
JXNOscar
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I literally have anxiety attacks about things that are not complete HOW DO I PAY FOR A HONEYMOON
BKtoLI
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Absolutely!!! Because I am reminded of how the clock is now ticking, and there is still a lot left to do!!
MrsFelix
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I agree. I'm excited about getting married and being his wife and living our lives together. BUT, the stress of the wedding getting closer and closer, finances, time, finances, time!!!
Overall I'd say we're pretty much on track but you can never be too ready. My goal is to have everything done, 1 week prior to the wedding so I can enjoy the last week with FH, family and friends.
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OH HELL YES
I've been nuts and nervous since the turn of the year and it just keeps getting worse. excited without a doubt, but i get more nautious (sp?) as each day comes closer.
andreascott
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believe me i definitely do... especially right now... i cant wait till it is over
cindyandkevin
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Yes, I'll admit that I've gotten a bit crazier since that ball dropped on New Years!!!! I've started to realize that it's getting close and final decisions need to be made, coordinating w/ other people has to be done, and $$ has to be paid!!
On one hand I can't wait for 6/10 to get here bc I want to marry FH but on the other hand I'm freaking out that I've only got 4.5 months left and I feel like there's still so much to do!!!!!! I just try to put things into perspective and remember that the important thing is that FH and I will be together, everything else is just bonus.
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Posted by lipglossjunky73
I can't wait til after the wedding - I almost feel like - what will I worry about after June 17th? Although, knowing me, there is never a shortage of things to stress about (ummm - yoga, anyone???)
Amen!
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Ummm YES!
ElegantBride
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It's so close but so far. I can't wait for the honeymoon!
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Posted by M&S Sept12006
Whats starting to freak me out is that my family and my friends are becoming more 'involved' and curious about the wedding. Everytime we get together everyone wants to know the details etc...its weird because before when I wanted to talk about it all the time no one was really interested...now its like whoa!
Yeah EXACTLY...last year my fmil wouldnt even mention the wedding b/c it was 'over a year a way' now she complains I dont tell her enough and askes me a million?s every chance she gets
