has you're Fh ever...

regy_k Posted: Apr 21, 2009 11:11 AM

has you're Fh ever...

...got extremely anxious about the wedding. I don't mean the marriage part, but the actual wedding event.
Mine totally did yesterday! He didn't let me go to sleep until I gave him a full rundown of the wedding. 1st he asked for a report on music, what I have done about DJ research and then he started fighting with me about importance of music and how he doesn't want any 'Poppy sh--' and wants quality music. He kept asking if the DJ will be able to do a multicultural music (we come from 4 different cultures and want that part of the wedding), when I said that I'm not sure he got angry that I was being so general and couldn't give him straight answers. Then he got on the subject of the photog, and what are my plans of making sure that we will get a good honest photog who will not screw us over. He even demanded that I will post on here asking what usually the photog's contracts promise in terms of minimum shots and equipment.
After the vendors were discussed to death he wanted me to give him the wedding day timeline , so I had to give him an exact schedule and how we going to room all of our guests, who will be standing with us at the huppah and when the dancing and the courses will be served

so did this ever happen to anyone else?

MrsC2010 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 11:13 AM

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haha no fh is so laid back.....i am the one that has freak outs and then he calms be down!

drivwal Posted: Apr 21, 2009 11:14 AM

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haha no he hasn't asked me for a rundown or anything but he does get really excited about certain things like when i mentioned i may look into booking a bagpiper for our ceremony to honor his Scottish heritage, and when i told him that we may want to just buy him a really nice suit to wear at the wedding because he doesn't have a nice suit and I think he deserves one. Little stuff like that make him excited!

stinenandy2010 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 11:15 AM

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Posted by MrsC2010

haha no fh is so laid back.....i am the one that has freak outs and then he calms be down!

haha same here

T E R I Posted: Apr 21, 2009 11:15 AM

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your FH is too funny

My FH has no idea about anything wedding related, nor does he want to know

Jen2525 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 11:17 AM

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hahah thats funny. Nah, that hasn't happen to me but only because my FH came with me everywhere so he knew all the information. I would tell your FH to come with you next time to avoid having to back track everything again....its great that he's getting excited though!

Lsorrent Posted: Apr 21, 2009 11:17 AM

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Posted by stinenandy2010

Posted by MrsC2010

haha no fh is so laid back.....i am the one that has freak outs and then he calms be down!

haha same here

Me too. I guess also because FH knows everything about the weddings since that's all I talk about!

rocketsummer17 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 11:21 AM

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lol the only thing my FH cares about is getting married...thats it lol he doesnt really care about timeline. Oh and he wanted to make sure the bar was top shelf (he was only asking bc he drinks absolute and wants to make sure he can have a drink or two...lol)

MarjorieFrank Posted: Apr 21, 2009 11:26 AM

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LoL. I talk nonstop about the wedding so my FH has heard enough about it!! He has gotten annoying at some points with what kind of car/limo we will be in (obvi) but that's about it. There's only room for one bridezilla in our relationship LoL

Jna2010 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 11:31 AM

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no not at all!! he's always like you need to chill, we have time lol

regy_k Posted: Apr 21, 2009 11:39 AM

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Posted by MarjorieFrank

LoL. I talk nonstop about the wedding so my FH has heard enough about it!! He has gotten annoying at some points with what kind of car/limo we will be in (obvi) but that's about it. There's only room for one bridezilla in our relationship LoL

I also thought that the job of bridezilla was mine and mine alone, I guess I was wrong LOL
I think what made him anxious is me getting the dress, and doing all the research cause I have more time fort that, and him only getting info from me.
last night has definitely was a big surprise to me

20mrsc10 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 11:58 AM

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after i said something to fh about how he should know every detail he responded, 'but if i don't know anything it will amaze me the day of because everything will be a surprise!'

what a jerk *ff haha

christine2010 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 12:01 PM

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once in a blue moon FH will ask a question about the wedding. other then that i run everything buy him before making a final decision. (except for my dress).

regy_k Posted: Apr 21, 2009 12:02 PM

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Posted by 20mrsc10

after i said something to fh about how he should know every detail he responded, 'but if i don't know anything it will amaze me the day of because everything will be a surprise!'

what a jerk *ff haha

that sounds the exact opposite of my FH. he hates surprises

deanna225 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 12:02 PM

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Posted by stinenandy2010

Posted by MrsC2010

haha no fh is so laid back.....i am the one that has freak outs and then he calms be down!

haha same here

i agree with u girls..

SoonToBMrsC Posted: Apr 21, 2009 12:42 PM

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LOL, Thats so cute. But no I'm the neurotic one and FH is always cool, calm and collected (I don't know how) He knows he can't become neurotic because he needs to be my rock lol

AugustBridein09 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 12:58 PM

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09er crashing

MY FH is a total GROOMZILLA! He talked more to our chaircover lady than I did.

regy_k Posted: Apr 21, 2009 01:04 PM

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Posted by AugustBridein09

09er crashing

MY FH is a total GROOMZILLA! He talked more to our chaircover lady than I did.

wait, is that what awaits me???

AugustBridein09 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 01:08 PM

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Posted by regy_k

Posted by AugustBridein09

09er crashing

MY FH is a total GROOMZILLA! He talked more to our chaircover lady than I did.

wait, is that what awaits me???

YES He is sooooo into wedding planning! Its a catch 22 for me most times I that he is soo involved and other times I'm like

regy_k Posted: Apr 21, 2009 01:20 PM

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Posted by AugustBridein09

Posted by regy_k

Posted by AugustBridein09

09er crashing

MY FH is a total GROOMZILLA! He talked more to our chaircover lady than I did.

wait, is that what awaits me???

YES He is sooooo into wedding planning! Its a catch 22 for me most times I that he is soo involved and other times I'm like