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Have any of you ever thrown FH's stuff away, without

donnasmom09 Posted:

Have any of you ever thrown FH's stuff away, without

telling him first? Mary MOB

geegee827 Posted:

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I do it all the time- and he's never even noticed! Before we met FH had every t-shirt he's owned since probably the age of 14. They are ripped, torn, stained, and just generally disgusting....some of them are almost 30 years old!!! He wouldn't throw them out. So now everytime he leaves one behind at my apartment, instead of washing it and putting it back in his drawer, I throw them out. I've been doing it for 2 years and he hasn't noticed yet!
donnasmom09 Posted:

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Posted by geegee827

I do it all the time- and he's never even noticed! Before we met FH had every t-shirt he's owned since probably the age of 14. They are ripped, torn, stained, and just generally disgusting....some of them are almost 30 years old!!! He wouldn't throw them out. So now everytime he leaves one behind at my apartment, instead of washing it and putting it back in his drawer, I throw them out. I've been doing it for 2 years and he hasn't noticed yet!




Gina, Debi would love to throw a few of Fred's old tee shirts away, too!!!!! I'll have to ask Donna!! Mary MOB
MEL0880 Posted:

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lol.. all the time.. he has crap that does not even fit him anymore! Once he was asking where a sweater of his was (like a month after i threw it out) and i told him we must of lost it when we were moving into our house.. lol It was the shaggiest most beaten up sweater ever.. lol

FutureMrsM Posted:

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Shhhh.... all the time! There are certain things that he's never even noticed and then others that he has and I just play dumb. He loses things all the time, so he just thinks that it's something else he lost, lol

geegee827 Posted:

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hmmmmmmm - it makes you wonder if they've ever thrown anything of ours away doesn't it???

geegee827 Posted:

Re: Have any of you ever thrown FH's stuff away, without


Posted by donnasmom09


Posted by geegee827

I do it all the time- and he's never even noticed! Before we met FH had every t-shirt he's owned since probably the age of 14. They are ripped, torn, stained, and just generally disgusting....some of them are almost 30 years old!!! He wouldn't throw them out. So now everytime he leaves one behind at my apartment, instead of washing it and putting it back in his drawer, I throw them out. I've been doing it for 2 years and he hasn't noticed yet!




Gina, Debi would love to throw a few of Fred's old tee shirts away, too!!!!! I'll have to ask Donna!! Mary MOB



Just tell her to go for it! FH never notices!!!
donnasmom09 Posted:

Re: Have any of you ever thrown FH's stuff away, without


Posted by geegee827

hmmmmmmm - it makes you wonder if they've ever thrown anything of ours away doesn't it???




Well, I can tell you this, never put your dry cleaning in a garbage bag, because it might be perceived as garbage and thrown out!!!!!! I really miss that stuff!!!! A quilt from my DH's Mom, and a knit cap that my deceased Aunt had made me. Mary MOB
geegee827 Posted:

Re: Have any of you ever thrown FH's stuff away, without


Posted by donnasmom09


Posted by geegee827

hmmmmmmm - it makes you wonder if they've ever thrown anything of ours away doesn't it???




Well, I can tell you this, never put your dry cleaning in a garbage bag, because it might be perceived as garbage and thrown out!!!!!! I really miss that stuff!!!! A quilt from my DH's Mom, and a knit cap that my deceased Aunt had made me. Mary MOB



Try to look on the bright side - at least he was putting out the garbage

donnasmom09 Posted:

Re: Have any of you ever thrown FH's stuff away, without


Posted by geegee827


Posted by donnasmom09


Posted by geegee827

hmmmmmmm - it makes you wonder if they've ever thrown anything of ours away doesn't it???




Well, I can tell you this, never put your dry cleaning in a garbage bag, because it might be perceived as garbage and thrown out!!!!!! I really miss that stuff!!!! A quilt from my DH's Mom, and a knit cap that my deceased Aunt had made me. Mary MOB



Try to look on the bright side - at least he was putting out the garbage




Well, this is true!!!!! Mary MOB
AHimar24 Posted:

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I've never thrown anything of FH's away, but he once gave away my favorite denim jacket. I spent quite some $$ on it a few years back, but always wore it. I left it at his place a few months back, and just forgot to take it with me. I didn't think it would be an issue since half his stuff is in my closet. Well he thought since I left it there for a few weeks I didn't want it anymore and he gave it to his mom to take to work and give it to a lady she works with. I thought he was kidding at first when I went looking for it and he told me he gave it away, it took him a week to convince me he wasn't lieing. Why would anyone give away something I wore all the time without asking me first?? It still gets me all heated

FutureMrsM Posted:

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Posted by AHimar24

I've never thrown anything of FH's away, but he once gave away my favorite denim jacket. I spent quite some $$ on it a few years back, but always wore it. I left it at his place a few months back, and just forgot to take it with me. I didn't think it would be an issue since half his stuff is in my closet. Well he thought since I left it there for a few weeks I didn't want it anymore and he gave it to his mom to take to work and give it to a lady she works with. I thought he was kidding at first when I went looking for it and he told me he gave it away, it took him a week to convince me he wasn't lieing. Why would anyone give away something I wore all the time without asking me first?? It still gets me all heated



OMG! I would have killed him, lol
little34 Posted:

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YES!!! FH is such a pack rat...I would NEVER get rid of anything I knew was important to him but he has a tendency to keep old magazines, not throw away socks with holes in them, that sort of thing...so I will just toss that stuff!!

gina409 Posted:

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wow im the odball here i never have but maybe he just dosent have that much stuff lol but he does have this old knicks shirt id love to burn
Nitania13 Posted:

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Posted by geegee827

hmmmmmmm - it makes you wonder if they've ever thrown anything of ours away doesn't it???



I don't usually throw away my FH's stuff, but one time he accidentally threw out a pearl & sapphire necklace. It was a necklace my mom had custom made for me that was a real replica of a fake necklace I had & loved as a little girl. Well, I store my pearls in tissue paper in a separate silk jewelry bag (b/c you're not supposed to keep pearls w/your other jewelry) and while getting dressed I took out the different pieces of tissue paper out of the silk case. I was in a rush so I left them on the bed and he thought it was garbage and THREW THEM OUT!! Thank G-D I realized as soon as I got home & they were just in the bathroom garbage. We of course didn't realize that until we'd sifted through every piece of garbage in the house, literally!! I could've killed him. He knows now to not touch tissue paper if it's rolled up in the bedroom, LOL!! And I try not to touch his stuff...although he's got it coming!!
KimiDanny1010 Posted:

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oh yeah... fh recently moved and during the move so things just got misplaced and were never found again ....ahahhahaha

thats what he gets for letting me help him pack stuff !!!
LeeAnne Posted:

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Posted by geegee827


Posted by donnasmom09


Posted by geegee827

hmmmmmmm - it makes you wonder if they've ever thrown anything of ours away doesn't it???




Well, I can tell you this, never put your dry cleaning in a garbage bag, because it might be perceived as garbage and thrown out!!!!!! I really miss that stuff!!!! A quilt from my DH's Mom, and a knit cap that my deceased Aunt had made me. Mary MOB



Try to look on the bright side - at least he was putting out the garbage





HAHAHA
endlesslove116 Posted:

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hahaha!! =] we dont live together yet but lemme tell you something.. when we are married and living together i swear i will throw a lot of his crap out that he has and doesnt even need or use anymore cause i am not going to have junk in my house collecting dust for no reason and taking space cause we will need all the space we can get since he is a 'GIRL' lol, and why i say this is cause he owns more clothes. shoes, sneakers than i do, hahahahaha.. so between my stuff and his stuff we are going to have problems, lol!!!!!!! =X

i know he will prolly notice things are missing even if he doesnt use them cause he just notices everything, lmao.. but oh well, its gonna happen!! haha!! =P
Jayla127 Posted:

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I have thrown out some things he just doesn't wear and it's collecting dust. and he never realizes it.

mohajeriny Posted:

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i do it all the time and he never notices.. if need be and it bothers you.. i say go for it! haha.

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