HAVE TWO QUESTIONS

HEY GIRLS

1. MY FI SISTER IS GETTING MARRIED TWO WEEKS AFTER ME, IF SHE DOES NOT ASK ME TO BE A BM SHOULD I ASK HER ANYWAYS, HIS OTHER TWO SISTERS ARE.

2. DO I PAY FOR BM DRESSES, AND HAIR AND MAKEUP.

THANK YOU KAREN

If you want her as a BM then by all means ask her.

you do not have to pay for BM dresses, hair, etc..
They pay for all of that. If you want to pay for hair and nails as a gift to them thats cool and is your decision, but as the bride you do not have to pay for anything of theirs.

If his other sister's will be in the BP, I would ask her too.
As for the BM dresses - No way - You don't have to pay for them. That's part of the commitment of being a BM.
You also don't have to pay for hair and makeup but it is a nice gesture if you do. I paid for my girls'.

1. It is always a nice gesture to ask the sibling of your mate to be in the wedding.

2. You are not obligated to pay for BM dresses.

I asked my FH's sister, because I felt that he would want her in the BP and since her daughter and brother were also in the BP, i felt it was only fair to ahve her too.

No way do you have to pay for thier dress.

I think his sisters should be part of the Bridal Party...if they have a half-way decent relationship...if mot as a BM...with black dresses on the grooms side...


as for dresses...no you do not have to pay...nor do you have to for hair of make-up...unless you require them to do it...i.e an updo...then I would say you should pay

you should ask her if you want her to be in it...
she may not ask to be in hers cause ifyour getting married 2 weeks earlier, you would probably not be home till wedding time.