Have you and FH diasgreed over anything wedding related?
michesq
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Slowly a few disagreements are surfacing. I mentioned a DOC and got 'the look'. he wants a little less Fall at the wedding- thinks too much of the theme and he is not sold yet on candy buffet
Marissa09Bride
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Well I originally wanted my dog in the wedding and he said no way
egem523
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Guest List.
I do not want to do the boquet and garter toss he does.
Summertimegal424
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no pretty much we have agreed on everything ...thankfully
MRSin2009
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Oh mine says do whatever you want and I will be there. I asked him today to just call the Watermill to make sure we can bring in our own candy for the candy buffet and he gave attitude! I said Listen you have done nothing this is the least you can do!
He did it, and we can! I know they had a candy buffet on there menu but I wanted to do it.
FutureMrsMacci
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yeah but nothing that has caused fights yet.. think it is still too early lol
He has been really good. I searched like crazy for halls, found one I loved and knew it was going to be it, and I didnt say anything to him about how much I loved it, when we went to look he said lets book it on the spot! So I got lucky with that. And for other vendors he has been pretty good with letting me chose and do my thing. The only vendor he wants to be a part of besides the hall is music.
dazies1011
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yes......He wants limos, bling bling for him self , 2 rings to be exact, he wants the photoboth and I dont but, nothing that I cant handle
KristiAnn923
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Actually no ... We both want everything to be wonderful and as long as it doesn't exceed our budget we are ok. He was the one that wanted to add all of the extras like the cigar roller, ice sculpture and photo booth. I am still debating on the photo booth but he knows it's on the 'extra money' list.
missjones2007
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He feels it pointless to have a video/photographer and said im wasting money...he said its pointless to have both and told me to pick one....ummm I don think so!
SOTHISISLOVE53109
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The only thing that we have really disagreed with is he is INSISTING on having chocolate fountains...I didn't really flip on the idea..well see what happens.
I get the 'you have picked everything else can't I have one thing? and then I feel bad.
Kristina2009
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I did not want to go over our budget on a photog. He was obsessed with Aneglica Glass (whom he actually found somehow not through this site). We went back and forth. He won but I am sure I will be happy when we get the piks.
Dreemer107
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i just found out tonight he'd rather a band...while im insisting on a dj...less expensive and can play practically everything, while a band really cant...
KristiAnn923
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I did not want to go over our budget on a photog. He was obsessed with Aneglica Glass (whom he actually found somehow not through this site). We went back and forth. He won but I am sure I will be happy when we get the piks.
I've seen her pictures and they are amazing. I am sure you will be extremely happy with these.
CNC4eva3402
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So far we've agreed on everything...FH is an easy guy to please..I can't hide my happiness when I find something I love, and FH love seeing me happy..so it works!! hehe
frenchy702
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I wanted a videographer and he doesn't. He feels like we'll watch it for the first five years and then it will just collect dust. I'm still trying to work on that though
Utterhappiness
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We are in agreement pretty much... he just gives me eyes every once in awhile with some of my ideas... and tells me some things I want are unnecessary like ceiling drapings...also the money... he is a business man so everything has a price ya know...and im more like I love it and I will find a way to get it
GiantsBride
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He's been pretty amazing of most things, but we did fight about the guest list. He has a bizillion friends and wants to invite all of them. I tried to get him to understand that since his family is not contributing, he is going to have to find a way to adhere to my parent's list.
kimiequa
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haha yes! i was surprised though..... he's THE most laid back person i know!
he was leaning towards captain bills (hahaha that would have been funny considering his name is bill!) and he wants limos, where i'm thinking of a much more affordable bus.... i think the main issue is that my parents are paying for the wedding, and i don't want to go over their budget (not that i know what that is) where he never expected to have someone else pay for his wedding, so he's fully prepared to contribute.
BTW i know that i sound like a spoiled brat, but my parents have always said that they wanted to pay for the wedding, so that the gifts we get will go towards our home. when i see FH wanting to spend money, i see it as less for our home.
FutureMrsFass
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Believe it or not our main disagreement has been over the color of the BM dresses ! I originally wanted brown but he was too concerned that clack tuxes would clash with the brown & he refused to wear any form of brown/tan tux. I tried to assure him that the black tuxes would look fine....He didn't want to hear it LOL. So, needless to say, now our BM dresses are sage with brown accents !
michesq
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Posted by FutureMrsFass
Believe it or not our main disagreement has been over the color of the BM dresses ! I originally wanted brown but he was too concerned that clack tuxes would clash with the brown & he refused to wear any form of brown/tan tux. I tried to assure him that the black tuxes would look fine....He didn't want to hear it LOL. So, needless to say, now our BM dresses are sage with brown accents !
similar to my situation but honesly i would not budge on latter dresses with chocolate accent
