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Have you asked your BMs?

FutureMcBride Posted:

Have you asked your BMs?

I haven't yet and I was wondering if any 2012 brides have asked yet!!!

FutureMrsGTL Posted:

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I asked my best friend to be my MOH but thats it so far

MsMagztobe Posted:

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Nope. My sister alreday knows that she is my moh but i am going to wait closer to the year mark to ask. Anything can happen from now until then.

allornil Posted:

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Id definitely wait. YOu never know what can happen. I keep reading tons of bride's regrets of BP.

I'm only having a MOH and she's already be informed she has no choice. lol
dCa51899 Posted:

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im not 2012, but close enough...I haven't asked, was planning to in the fall or late summer this year

vickyp0o1215 Posted:

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I have asked only bc 5 out of 7 are family.. my 2 sisters, cousin and fh 2 nieces

the other two are childhood friends

im thinking of adding a couple but will wait for atleast 6 more months to ask
chrisandjeanne Posted:

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I have not asked anyone yet...because it is true that a lot can change in a year or two...so I am waiting till january 2011 to ask them.

Mommy2BeBride Posted:

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FH & I have asked all our bridal party as soon as we got engaged.. My girls have even tried on bridesmaid dresses.. These are either family or extremily close friends that even in 5 years, we will still be close with.

At our engagement party we had all our bridal party dressed in red too so everyone knew they were a part of our special day!
S00n2beWifey Posted:

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No not yet, I want to though. just to get it out of the way lol.. I think I will soon though but not sure... maybe at e-party?? maybe before?? .. ahh not suree
FutureMcBride Posted:

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Posted by 2BecomeOne

FH & I have asked all our bridal party as soon as we got engaged.. My girls have even tried on bridesmaid dresses.. These are either family or extremily close friends that even in 5 years, we will still be close with.

At our engagement party we had all our bridal party dressed in red too so everyone knew they were a part of our special day!

I thinkI knew without asking that you have asked already!!!!

I really want to ask but have waited because I feel that it's not close enough yet. I think that this summer I will though, because I want to ask before our engagement party in Aug. At that point the wedding will be a year and five months away so I feel that is sufficient!
Mommy2BeBride Posted:

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Posted by FutureMcBride


Posted by 2BecomeOne

FH & I have asked all our bridal party as soon as we got engaged.. My girls have even tried on bridesmaid dresses.. These are either family or extremily close friends that even in 5 years, we will still be close with.

At our engagement party we had all our bridal party dressed in red too so everyone knew they were a part of our special day!

I thinkI knew without asking that you have asked already!!!!

I really want to ask but have waited because I feel that it's not close enough yet. I think that this summer I will though, because I want to ask before our engagement party in Aug. At that point the wedding will be a year and five months away so I feel that is sufficient!



LOL you know me

If I had the money, I would be able to get married now since I have everything done =/
mathnerd123 Posted:

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i have my sister and my FH's sister, but since friends can be fair weather sometimes, im waiting till the one year mark.

hamptonsbride2010 Posted:

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'10er crashing... I would def. wait till closer to the wedding. I had a long engagement 22 months, and asked about 15 months in advance... and 2 of the girls are no longer in it anymore. One was someone who ive been friends with for 13 years - never thought we wouldn't be friends... well she moved up her wedding to the week before mine and said she would be on her honeymoon.... we haven't talked since.

The other is still a really good friend - but she is giving birth 2 weeks before the wedding so she will be listed as a bm.

you never know what can happen
April_Luv Posted:

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Yes my girls already know.

MOH-Twin sister
BM-Sister
BM-Sister
BM-Best Friend
BM-Close Friend
Vdubs214 Posted:

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Yes, I asked all my girls. my sister, 2 step sisters and 4 of my best friends in the entire world. The only thing I wish I did was wait so I could ask them really cute with like a little party or get together lunch. I think I can still do that but they all know.

I just couldn't wait!

I want to get married now!!!! lol

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