Have you been getting into a lot of arguments with FH?

Have you been getting into a lot of arguments with FH?

Re: Have you been getting into a lot of arguments with FH?

No thankfully we aren't but I wanted to say that I definitely think that you two need to talk about this. Good Luck!!!!! I hope it gets better. If you think counseling will help definitely talk to someone

Re: Have you been getting into a lot of arguments with FH?

We went through a period where we fought way more than usual but it seems to have passed

FM me though if you want to talk

Re: Have you been getting into a lot of arguments with FH?

OH MY GOD I THINK 2 WEEKS AGO WE FOUGHT EVERY FRIGEN DAY, THAT I WAS STARTING TO HAVE SECOND THOUGHTS BC I WAS SO FRUSTRATED ANDTHINKING HOW AM I GONNA LIVE WITH HIM FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE! LOL BUT ALL IS FINE NOW, AND EVERYONE IS TELLING ME ITS SOOOOOOO NORMAL AT THIS POINT OF THE GAME, SO DONT WORRY!!!

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After going to our pre pre-cana (FOCCUS) I really think it's a great idea for all couples to have some sort of discussion group before they get married. There are so many things you should have agreed upon before you move in together and get married. I would definitely speak with your pastor to see if they offer some type of pre-cana if you're not getting married in a catholic church.

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We fight more than we used to, but we're really good about working it out together. There are days when I want to kill him, but it goes away when he does something too adorable for words.

I mean, I want to kill him right now while he is on the phone with FSIL. He is trying to help her with a computer issue and all she is doing is b!tching and whining. I like her and all but sometimes

Re: Have you been getting into a lot of arguments with FH?

here and there occasionaly but its usually about paying bills for the wedding LOL

Re: Have you been getting into a lot of arguments with FH?

Re: Have you been getting into a lot of arguments with FH?

you are not alone!!! i feel like everyone goes through phases...i know we do....the wedding planning brings on lots of stress

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All the stress from the wedding makes me flip out at FH all the time but he is so calm and understanding it only last a couple of minutes.

Re: Have you been getting into a lot of arguments with FH?

FH and I have had our share of arguments during the planning period. I think it's normal...there is sooo much stress involved..lots of changes...and learning to compromise. I'm not sure how far along you are with your planning but once we had all of the major things done things got sooo much better. We are back to being excited and semi stressfree.

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I sometimes believe FH just starts ish with me on purpose. It normally happens when it comes down to making a payment for something. Hopefully this too shall pass.

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we are the same way.....he just freaked on me today because i asked him where the remote was.....i hope it goes away soon!

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I am so sorry you are going through a rough patch! If it makes your feel better, I truly believe all of this wedding planning brings upon so much stress. Between your opinion, his opinion, everyone else's opinion, the ridiculous amount of money you have to shell out AND all of the life changes....it can be extremely overwhelming. So far, I feel it has been equally enjoyable as it has been stressful. I wouldn't change it for the world though. My fiance is probably the most easy going person I have ever met and we still get into our little tiffs over all of this wedding stuff. I think its very easy to lose sight of the bigger picture.....and we all do at times! Everytime you find yourself arguing or about to argue, remember to pick your battles and remember why you are marrying each other in the first place. You guys will get through it....weddings tend to get everyone's panties in a bunch! Especially when you have a very strong personality like myself!

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Yeah i have been very hard on FH lately. He knows its all the wedding planning stress so he sometimes fights back, but then we pretty much laugh it off the next day. I think its a normal part of any relationship and will eventually pass.

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Oh yes, definitely. The closer we get, the more stressed I am, and the more I tend to snap (yes I admit it, I snap!) at him. We live together, and get along very well most of the time for sure, but even though it's not fair, the stress from the wedding invades our non-wedding life.

Eh well, it'll all be over in 3 and a half months and then we'll party!

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You are not alone at all! I know i've said this before on here, but both FH and I are so stressed out lately with work and school and wedding and graduation coming up... we're just like biting each other's head's off! The other night I actually took my e-ring off and threw it at him because I just couldn't take his crappy attitude anymore! We have our good days and bad days lately, but we realize that it's just the stress of what's going on right now and we know that we love each other and couldn't see our lives without the other in it.

Re: Have you been getting into a lot of arguments with FH?

we've been fight wayyyyyyyyyyyy too much... I heard its normal I hope it passes soon...