I had my first cry yesterday. FH and I were arguing about the cost of my hair and makeup and I felt so badly because I just wanted to look pretty for the day of, I didn't know it would cause an argument. He felt really badly for making me cry though so he said he didn't care how much it was, he just wanted me to be happy.
Anyone else cry over wedding stuff yet???
dbleplay17
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i did when my mom was azrguing with me about the guest list...mind u it was weeks after i was engaged that was the 1st of MANY!
ps i was engaged xmas eve of 04!
Goldi1021
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EVERY DAMN DAY!
BKtoLI
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In the beginning I did because it took my MOH forever to get back to me, and it seemed like no one was willing to help me. I understood everyone had life changing events of their own going on, but it would have been nice to hear a 'I'm here if you need any help' which I only heard once from my SIL who didn't want to be in the wedding!!!
I'll probably be crying again soon over the finances....
Love_my_Freddybear
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Never!!! Planning was the best!!!
We knew our budget, and on some things we splurged and on others we were more strict!!!
Don't stress, marrying the love of your life should be everything but stressful!!!
Enjoy every minute it b/c it goes so quick!!!
esb980
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Posted by BKtoLI
In the beginning I did because it took my MOH forever to get back to me, and it seemed like no one was willing to help me. I understood everyone had life changing events of their own going on, but it would have been nice to hear a 'I'm here if you need any help' which I only heard once from my SIL who didn't want to be in the wedding!!!
I'll probably be crying again soon over the finances....
Thats how I felt/ feel. When all my friends had their big days (weddings, or other) I was right there in the front lines. Helping them w/ WHATEVER they needed! I feel like now that it's my turn, they all have vanished!
Soon2BeMrs2006
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oh god i lost count already
Awhite80
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Posted by Soon2BeMrs2006
oh god i lost count already
you and me both!
hmpena
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I have only cried about family drama and things that I cannot control. Otherwise, no.
JanuaryBride06
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kmkelly
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Yup - this can all be very emotional. But most of the time the planning makes me happy and excited.
Jen2999
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I dont cry about the wedding stuff. I cry about the MONEY stuff and where we will live after.
Preshy7
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i mostly cry happily/excitedly...
though in private i have cried about some of my decisions and vendors
but im over it
STBH
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Posted by esb980
Posted by BKtoLI
In the beginning I did because it took my MOH forever to get back to me, and it seemed like no one was willing to help me. I understood everyone had life changing events of their own going on, but it would have been nice to hear a 'I'm here if you need any help' which I only heard once from my SIL who didn't want to be in the wedding!!!
I'll probably be crying again soon over the finances....
Thats how I felt/ feel. When all my friends had their big days (weddings, or other) I was right there in the front lines. Helping them w/ WHATEVER they needed! I feel like now that it's my turn, they all have vanished!
Wow I feel exactly the same. Whenever my friends needed me I was there but it seems as though nobody is there for me!! My MOH is my sister and she keeps telling me that it is her senior year in college and that she has to concentrate more on that then her MOH duties which I understand but still.......
Steph62406
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not yet...'knock on Wood' I hope I don't
beautyq115
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YET??? Many times already
JennylovesBrian
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in the beginning finding a venue, FH and I fought alot about that....also about my mother hating my invitations :(
junebride:)
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My dear, you are not the only one!! ;) IT'S OK TO CRY.
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Posted by hmpena
I have only cried about family drama and things that I cannot control. Otherwise, no.
I cried a LOT in the beginning! Mostly, because my dad's paying, my stepmom fought me on every one of my decisions, and I cried when they kep telling me I had plenty of time, when I wanted to book a vendor I liked for a June wedding!
psf80
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I did over the sheer amount of things I had to do and that FH wasn't really helping.