Have you ever wanted to kick someone out of your BP?
bobbsbride
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I am so upset over what is going on with one of my BM. Its my FI's sister and lets put it this way she has never been a nice girl! Well, Friday night was my shower and she didn't show up at all! I heard later on she didn't even RSVP. FI had asked her that night why she wasn't going and she srugged him off. She did send a gift but it was the cheapest thing she could find on the registry and she split the cost of that with the other sister. Thing is I never wanted her in the BP anyway because she is such a drag. I was forced and now I am even more angry! I am having a hard time ignoring the negative!
AJsMommy122
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hugs to you and to answer your question - YES!!!!
FLaCaTaCa
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That is what I like to call my weekend pasttime. Thinking of how many of the 10 girls will actually not drive me nuts!!!!
nferrandi
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I actually am very happy with the girls I picked, but I could have had one like yours. I knew that FBIL was going to get engaged shortly after we did and I suppose etiquette would have had me ask his girlfriend to be in my bridal party. I opted not because she's not very nice to me and I would just be inviting something bad to happen. I didn't feel that I should be obligated to have anyone in my BP.
DecBride04
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Been there and Done that
I told two of my X BM's this
peabody
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Yes, my own sister! Everyone else has been good, but I wish I had never asked my sister to be a BM (she was upset because she wasn't my MOH, thank god I went with my gut feeling and chose my BF as my MOH). But yes, I wish I could cut out my sister all together.
Corduroy94
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I couldn't agree more! My FI sister is driving me nuts. I have her in my BP b/c he wanted her there & I thought it was a nice gesture. She is the ultimate tomboy! Wants to know why she has to wear a dress if they make pant suits with the same material...this after we told her no TUX! Plus she feels buying a gift is too much to ask since she is paying for a gown & shoes - that's her gift! Just about everything I do is wrong & she complains. She's even protesting the limos & going on her own since she thought they were a waste.
If it helps, I keep finding ways to put up with her - I know this is unfair but I blame a lot of it on her being from a small farm town in WI! No one else is like this but I need some reason for why she's so against things & keep hoping it's b/c it's different than what she's used to & a little bit of sadness loosing her baby brother to NY.
Hang in there! It may be tough for you but it could always be worse - it could be one of your closest friends causing you these headaches.
Bebalina
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I couldn't agree more!! My avatar quote speaks for itself!
