Have you thought about the fact that you might......

Panamasweet Posted: Oct 29, 2009 01:48 PM

Have you thought about the fact that you might......

have your monthly on your wedding day? I am so nervous about this. I usually dont get my period because I have a IUD but there are times when i spot. What if something goes wrong and I am in full fledge flow mode.....

Sorry if someone thinks this is nasty but I know I cant be the only one thinking about this

Lisalana Posted: Oct 29, 2009 01:49 PM

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There's no way I would allow that to happen! I don't want it on my wedding or during the HM. So, i'll just either stack pills or skip a month. Whatever it takes to avoid this situation!!! :)

StaceyWill Posted: Oct 29, 2009 01:50 PM

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Yes, I've thought about it and it would bum me out so bad. Especially for the HM.

AngnShaun Posted: Oct 29, 2009 01:51 PM

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as of right now i will have it day of... but not on my honeymoon which i would rather because i wanna try to get pregnant right away so its pretty much perfect timing!

scatteredx12 Posted: Oct 29, 2009 01:52 PM

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i've thought about it and i actually counted the days with my BC pills and it works out perfectly that i won't have it for my wedding OR honeymoon! needless to say, i'm excited. lol.

LanaB Posted: Oct 29, 2009 01:59 PM

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omg I soooo thought thattttttt i hope I wont

Golden Posted: Oct 29, 2009 02:01 PM

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Luckily my PD comes like clockwork on the first of the month and is always gone by the 5th and I'm getting married the 9th so I should be fine

Good luck though

FutureJOC Posted: Oct 29, 2009 02:14 PM

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I have... and I am so far away from the date that it's kinda hard to predict...

BUT....

if you girls don't know about this website...

My Monthly Cycle

...it's pretty cool. Basically you just track you PDs and then they have a tool on here where based on how long in between PDs and how long the last, it can predict up to your next 18 PDs.

So far it's been pretty darn accurate with me. It works better the more you track.

Panamasweet Posted: Oct 29, 2009 02:17 PM

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Nice!!!! I'm sure alot of girls would love this. Since I dont have regular cycles I dont think it will work for me. There is nothing I can really do but hope and pray.....

Im_My_Own_Princess Posted: Oct 29, 2009 02:17 PM

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I prob will... oh well.. there's nothing I can do about it. I told FH this and he doesn't care much, as long as I don't have it the entire HM.
My only concern is that I get it ON my wedding day. Usually I get it so bad that I'm in bed all day, unable to move, eat or drink. (but only the first day).

asg450 Posted: Oct 29, 2009 02:18 PM

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I worry about this every month when I get it. I'm hoping it will change and I will get it at the beginning of the month and not the end of the month like I get it now.

jcreilly Posted: Oct 29, 2009 02:29 PM

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I have and I am freaking out ! I get really bad cramps the first day and I am due around the day of my wedding which means I will be a mess!
I quit smoking 2 years ago and that used to clam me down and helped with my cramps maybe I should take it up again

MarjorieFrank Posted: Oct 29, 2009 02:34 PM

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I am scheduled to get it the day of my wedding. My body hates me! I will do something about it, there is no way Aunt Flow will be in town for my wedding/HM!!!!!!!!!

jcreilly Posted: Oct 29, 2009 02:48 PM

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Posted by FutureJOC

I have... and I am so far away from the date that it's kinda hard to predict...

BUT....

if you girls don't know about this website...

My Monthly Cycle

...it's pretty cool. Basically you just track you PDs and then they have a tool on here where based on how long in between PDs and how long the last, it can predict up to your next 18 PDs.

So far it's been pretty darn accurate with me. It works better the more you track.

if this is correct my period will be the week before my wedding YAY, I will have it for my RD but that will be okay

FutureMrsLMS Posted: Oct 29, 2009 03:08 PM

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I thought about that before I picked my wedding day. I usually get it in the beginning of the month, give or take a few days..and always feel extremely bloated, cranky and PMS-y right before it comes..I also gain like 2-3 lbs of extra water weight which shows on my face and body..

so I am crossing my fingers I am not too early or too late when the big day arrives!

gonzalezm3 Posted: Oct 29, 2009 03:12 PM

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i have a feeling that I will have it on my wedding day... just cause those kinds of things tend to happen to me oh well

Ivansgirl Posted: Oct 29, 2009 03:15 PM

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I actually charted out me period found out I was suppose to get it 3 days before my wedding. I worked with my dr to adjust my BCP so that I get it the week before. It was really easy.

Panamasweet Posted: Oct 29, 2009 03:16 PM

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I'm going to speak to my doctor about maybe taking BC on top of the IUD for added assurance. I'm not even sure if this will effect anything but it cant hurt to ask

10102009Bride Posted: Oct 29, 2009 03:28 PM

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my period usually is pretty regular. It was supposed to start on Friday before the wedding (a day before)
I was SO stressed out about it, but there was nothing I could do. I just tried to relax
and mother nature brough her gift a week earlier... a whole week earlier!!!!
i was done few days before the wedding.
The morning I got my period I was so happy. At the end it all worked out for me.
Good luck to you ladies.

dshb Posted: Oct 29, 2009 03:48 PM

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I've been thinking about this for awhile. I did the caculations & I might have it during the week of my wedding & on the day of. I spoke to my doctor and he's going to help adjust my BCP. I'm still nervous it might not work.