haven't been on a long time....this is why....

69 Posted: Apr 20, 2006 05:12 PM

haven't been on a long time....this is why....

hey guys... haven't been on in soooooooooo long I really miss it.....

to shorten it all.... I got some bad news from the dr.. or sort of... my FI parents and family found out and told him not to marry me.... the long and the short of it is, since then, my results are alright.... but his family is still not really talking to me.... and only somewhat talking to him... long story... it will be a long hard road from now on... unreal... just when you think everything should be fun and exciting... so I am still not sure his parents are attending the wedding.....

on a positive note, my dress came in early!!! so I am going to see it tues night.....

I really missed being on here... and right now I could use some support.. so I thought where else would you find people who understand about wedding drama..... !!!! I never thought I would be one of 'those' drama people.. but unfortunately I am now.... so I am sorry I have missed so much... but I will be back now.... I am soon to have only 4 months left!!!!!

so those brides getting married this weekend.... good luck to you and I'll fill you all in on the drama as it ensues.....

thanks for being here....

-A

Naunie Posted: Apr 20, 2006 05:14 PM

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I am so sorry.
I can't beleive his family, that's unbeleivable.
What ever it is, I am sure you need him now more than ever, I hope he understands that.
Best of luck, we all are here for you!

69 Posted: Apr 20, 2006 05:20 PM

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thanks!

BlueTulip Posted: Apr 20, 2006 05:22 PM

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That's horrible! How could they abandon you when you are down? And encourage him to do the same. I have no idea what you are sick with, but it shouldn't matter. best of luck!

Beth1210 Posted: Apr 20, 2006 05:24 PM

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that's terrible- they should be ashamed of themselves

feel better

MrsFelix Posted: Apr 20, 2006 05:28 PM

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One of your vows is 'in sickness and in health' I commend your FH for sticking by you. Everyone can be good in the good times, it's when the bad times come that you know who your REAL friends are. I hope it's nothing life threatening.

BTW: WELCOME BACK!!!!

CalJoe0124 Posted: Apr 20, 2006 05:34 PM

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cindyandkevin Posted: Apr 20, 2006 05:47 PM

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Oh no!!!!!!!!!! I'm so sorry!!!!! That's terrible of your FI's family, but I'm glad he didn't listen to them. You know you can always depend on us for support, we're here for you!!!

Soon2BeMrs2006 Posted: Apr 20, 2006 05:48 PM

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CaMacho Posted: Apr 20, 2006 05:49 PM

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I agree with MrsFelix... I hope everything is okay!

Bigbroad555 Posted: Apr 20, 2006 05:57 PM

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You don't need his family all you need is him.. I am sorry to hear this.. Some familys are ****..

Fh I commend for standing by you

gigles319 Posted: Apr 20, 2006 06:55 PM

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So sorry, we are here if you need us

cmastro25 Posted: Apr 20, 2006 07:10 PM

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We're here for you! I'm so sorry you are dealing with people like that. If you get bad news about your health, you need support, not ridicule. Hugs and prayers going your way.

October Bliss Posted: Apr 20, 2006 07:20 PM

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I'm so sorry to hear that to compound sort of bad news from the MD, your FILs chose not to offer support.

We are here for you!

BKtoLI Posted: Apr 20, 2006 07:27 PM

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I'm so sorry Audra!!!

That really stinks about his family. I guess they don't truly know the meaning behind a commitment with someone through thick and thin.

Glad to hear FH is staying by your side!! If you ever need anything, let me know!!!