OMG, I just converted my master to-do list into the to-do list function here....and the sheer amount of unchecked versus checks just made me
I think I'm going to be sick, I have sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much to do, and it just hit me all of a sudden that it's NEVER GOING TO GET DONE, as FH is sitting putzing around with his camera instead of doing anything remotely to help me, and I just can't afford all of the things on the list and I just want to cry.
It's official....my breaking point has arrived.
HappyBride22
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We all have those moments......you will be fine!!
Tori9299
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Hang in you'll get things done.
mlcvln129
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I get panic attacks on an almost daily basis. . .I feel your pain!!!!!!
gina409
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as useful as that list is...try not to look so much..it wil drive u nuts...dont worry u r a very smart girl who is very organized..u will get it all done..i have no doubt
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you will get it done. i hardly did anything in the beginning and basically got most everything done in the last month. think about it, if you really wanted to, you could plan your whole wedding in a matter of months if you did it all at once-and you have almost a year. you have plenty of time!!
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I know it will all get done eventually...and the biggest vomit-inducing non-check on the list is actually the only one NWR....finding a place to live! FH just does NOT want to look at places...he says we can't afford to yet, but he really and truly believes we can start looking mid-November and we'll be made in the shade....THAT'S what's flipping me out I think....
FutureMrsC614
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take a deep breath! It will be alright!!
FutureMrsM
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awww Breathe! You'll get everything done, it will all work out and you'll have a beautiful day!
MirabellaNYC
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OMG girl it will be ok! I'm sure you don't wanna hear this, but you have a but more than 11 months to go. Try not to stress! I never look at those checklists b/c I know it will make me feel like I haven't done anything yet.
I only follow the lists on theknot I feel like that is much more realistic. Plus it shows me that we're ahead of schedule.
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you have soooo much time ... def look at your list and put things in order of importance ... start doing the most important things ... as time goes on, you will see if you have time and money for the little things!
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.. you can look for places without him to get an idea of what you like dont like , do research on real estate and keep a folder and in the next few months collect all info you need and present it to fh in an email or a print everything out show him all your hard work . one thing at a time ...
