Having an issues with bm

MEMEJOR Posted: Jul 15, 2008 10:50 AM

Having an issues with bm

ok all my girls got their fittings done and ordered their dresses( even ones out of state) my cuz is the only one who hasent gotten it yet... they wont send in the order till eveyones is in... i told her that this weekend was last time she could get it.... then she said she would go yesterday... she hasent picked up my phone calls... at this point i feel like saying u cant be in it but she is my cuz...i am so pisseddddddddd....i dont know what to do

soorrry so longggggggg

Jsquared279 Posted: Jul 15, 2008 10:53 AM

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Can you maybe write her an email or send a text if she isn't answering your calls and tell her that if by this saturday she has not been measured/submitted her order then she will no long be able to be a part of your day. Be as diplomatic as you can, although I know it is hard when people are inconsiderate like this. Say something along the lines of you are my Cousin and I love you and I want you to be a part of my day but I have asked you many times and I really need you to cooperate here. That is what I would do/ say! HTH! Sorry you are going through this!

evewedsjc Posted: Jul 15, 2008 10:54 AM

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give her one more week to get her s*** together...let her know they are extending it just for her and if she does not get it done...BUH-BYE!!!

I am getting good at that lately!!!lol

MEMEJOR Posted: Jul 15, 2008 10:59 AM

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I told her she is my cuz and i want her in it and she said sorry she has been a piece of ***** but i know u are going through crap but come on now... i am giving her till sat

Utterhappiness Posted: Jul 15, 2008 10:59 AM

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that stinks !! I am sorry she is causinig you such an annoyance! I honestly feel like, you have done all you could do... maybe 1 more text and then call it a day. I know it is sad bc she is your relative for god's sake...but that is why its even worse that she is causing you this annoyance! Like at least pick up your phone and tell you that she was too crazy that day or something... and that she promises to order it .. ya know.. something

she gave you nothing instead

Utterhappiness Posted: Jul 15, 2008 10:59 AM

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ps.. Ill be your bridesmaid and we can go to the conference to celebrate after your wedding LOL

MEMEJOR Posted: Jul 15, 2008 11:05 AM

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Posted by Utterhappiness

ps.. Ill be your bridesmaid and we can go to the conference to celebrate after your wedding LOL

MrsInglima Posted: Jul 15, 2008 11:10 AM

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Posted by Jsquared279

Can you maybe write her an email or send a text if she isn't answering your calls and tell her that if by this saturday she has not been measured/submitted her order then she will no long be able to be a part of your day. Be as diplomatic as you can, although I know it is hard when people are inconsiderate like this. Say something along the lines of you are my Cousin and I love you and I want you to be a part of my day but I have asked you many times and I really need you to cooperate here. That is what I would do/ say! HTH! Sorry you are going through this!

This is exactly what I had to do and literally last minute my cousin ordered.

evewedsjc Posted: Jul 15, 2008 11:11 AM

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REMEMBER SWEETS...THERE IS ALWAYS ONE!!!

littlepixie12 Posted: Jul 15, 2008 11:23 AM

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cant you just order the dress for her? and then tell her i got you this dress size so since you didnt go try it on, you will just have to alter the size to your size when you go pick it up.

VickiR510 Posted: Jul 15, 2008 12:23 PM

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Ok how oldis she? Can u call her mommy?? lol I mean if she is not responible enough to get it done then maybe her mom needs to step in! lol lol lol If not try every way possible to get to her & if she still hasnt gone or doesnt pick up then you need to let her go. So sad but true!

flairforfashion Posted: Jul 15, 2008 12:24 PM

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Seems like everyone is having bridal attendant issues. I would send her an email telling her she has this amount of time left. She'll probably get her @ss moving then.

vicky1125 Posted: Jul 15, 2008 12:24 PM

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i would give her til the weekend. maybe she can't afford it right now?? but it's not right to hold everyone else up.

MEMEJOR Posted: Jul 15, 2008 12:30 PM

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Posted by vicky1125

i would give her til the weekend. maybe she can't afford it right now?? but it's not right to hold everyone else up.

i asked her if that was it and she said no she had the money... i would lay it out of that was the reason... i dont want to burden anyone u know what i mean

JJC Posted: Jul 15, 2008 12:38 PM

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i would tell her it has to be in by this weekend or shes not in it...

Future Mrs Roo Posted: Jul 15, 2008 12:39 PM

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I would give her 1 more week, is she close by you? I would drag her down there to get it done. childish I know but thats how some people are.

missjones2007 Posted: Jul 15, 2008 01:09 PM

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I had that same problem with two girls who took all day to get their dresses they finally got them but i told them if they dont get them by a certain time then they are out!