having doubts ...

Hey Ladies ...

I am having so many doubts on so many things ...

I've had my own dress anxiety for months, but now I'm wondering if I chose the right dress for the girls. I loved them during the tryons, but now I feel like I should have chosen something else ... I don't know, maybe I'll feel better after the girls go through all their fittings.

I'm even having doubts in regards to my color choices. FH and I chose light and dark blue - FH is 'color-deficient'(colorblind, but not really), and cannot recognize certain colors, especially when together. I'm starting to feel like everything is going to be too boring with all the blue, and its too late to change things ...

I bought a ton of things for centerpieces, and now I'm wondering if the vases are too small, but I can't afford any more.

I've been breaking my neck in kickboxing for a month, and I feel like I am getting fatter! There are no results yet.

Truth is, I'm starting to think my wedding is going to SUCK! Sorry for the pity-party here, but I'm just having a bad night right now, and if I talk about it in front of FH, he will only get annoyed - men just don't understand!

HEEEEEELLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!

Everything will be GREAT! I think you are just over thinking it

Love dark and light blue together

Everything will be amazing.. Its just gets overwhelming at a point. And know this you are not alone. We have all felt like you are feeling, you have just been strong enough to say it outloud.
deep breathes its will all work out!

YOU AND I CAN HAVE A PITTY PARTY TONIGHT!!!!! Im having one of those nights too....everything is stressing me out to the max right now....and FH just says relax everything will work out..(yea easy for him to say!)

I think its important when we start to feel like this to stop everything and really remember what this is all about and if we picked certain things such as dresses, colors etc we picked them for a reason...we had to have loved them at that moment. I think we are just so stressed and nervous to make everything perfect that we start to second guess things.

Dont worry girl

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Posted by jovigirl414

Alright fizz ... Cmon over, u bring the beer, I'll bring the party!

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deal

I am staring at the computer looking at all the things that need to get done the next 6 weeks ahhhh

Ah I still have so much to do....and an apartment to pack up in the next 2-3 weeks

This week is packing, guest book photo choosing, and music choosing

The two blues both happen to be in my mothers dress - pix of that in my album. The lighter blue is what my girls are wearing.

I know, I totally overthink everything ... its a disease, I tell ya!

hey girlie! you are sooo not alone..i am soo having one of those nites too! and asi read more comments on this so are a few other girls.. first i find out my wedding shoes dont fit and i dont know what the store is going to tell me when i call them tomorrow...then i find out my TA tells me that out honeymoon flight on American Airlines was changed to a connection flight and not direct..we already paid for the flight and she tells me she might not be able to fix it and if she does it will be at LEAST $150 more... JOY ... and then this whole week i have been BUSTING my butt super hard (have been hardcore in the gym for like 2 months now..and thats long for me lol) and i feel like im not losing anymore weight!!! i dropped the first 13 and now im stuck..and i am not skinny enought to be stuck yet!!!! i have been doing zumba and everyone tells me i look skinnier and maybe its inches now that im loosing and not necessarily weight..ps im supposed to be getting my period in 3 days so hopefully i havent lost because i am carrying water weight.. anyways just know ur no alone and no matter what goes on up until ur special day..that day will be a FAIRYTALE!!!!!! and it will be PERFECT! and a friend who just got married april 17th i was at her wedding and when she same to the table where i was sitting with FH she and her new hubby said to us 'u guys are next and if i can give u one piece of advice it would be to not sweat the small stuff' she told me that the flowers in the church and her centerpieces didnt look exactly like the sample centerpeices her florist showed her but she said who knew..no one except herself....and none the less they were gorgeous!!!!! i just hope we all have a better day tomorrow!!! xoxo

I think you're just over analyzing a bit because you're coming down to the wire now. Pour yourself a glass of wine and just relaaaax.

BTW, I think light and dark blue go really well together.

I know that, one of my problems is that I don't eat enough ... and when I do eat enough - it becomes too much. I don't recognize satisfying hunger - I know when I'm full because it hurts, lol ...

During the day at work, I eat Slim Fast and Special K bars as meals. I just started adding grapefruit juice into my diet - my sensei says its good for breaking food down faster. Don't get me wrong, I love the workout, I'm actually enjoying feeling like I just got beat up from class ... I just hoped that I'd see some improvement other than being able to do more situps each day.

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Posted by xbutrflykissesx

just looked ar ur pics and u dont even look like u need to lose weight!!!

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PS - thank you!!!

I just know what I used to look like, and its much better than what I look like now, you know?