Having Doubts....UPDATE

notsure Posted: May 13, 2003 04:56 PM

Having Doubts....UPDATE

Well, I just wanted to let you know that I just received an e-card from my FI. It said 'Greetings from the Dog House' and he wrote me this big letter about how sorry he is about taking his frustrations and stress out on me last night and how he will work on it to make sure that he doesn't do that in the future and how we need to work together to improve the way we communicate with one another. And that he loves me....

jennbaby Posted: May 13, 2003 04:58 PM

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Are you a regular poster?

Anyway I wish you the best!

alina Posted: May 13, 2003 04:59 PM

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Yay, congrats!!! Looks like things are looking a bit brighter... Keep your chin up and no serious discussions until after CFA (unless he initiates, of course)

eroxgirl Posted: May 13, 2003 05:00 PM

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I was just reading your other posts. Its a very good sign that he took the initiative to send you that. At least he knows he's wrong. Good luck to you both.

jenny2penny Posted: May 13, 2003 05:02 PM

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notsure Posted: May 13, 2003 05:03 PM

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Yes, I'm a regular poster on this board. Basically everyday for the past year and a half. It is very upsetting to have to re-evaluate the big step that you are taking. I have posted the past year and a half about DJ's, florists, dresses and now that it has come to the end, I'm having doubts. I definitely felt wierd posting with my regular username even though I know how understanding and supportive you all have been for so long.

We still have some work to do and should still have a talk I believe in order to prevent it from happening in the future.

jennbaby Posted: May 13, 2003 05:17 PM

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I hope all works out for you!

notsure Posted: May 13, 2003 05:22 PM

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Although I'm really happy that he took the first step and tried to make-up and make it better, of course I'm still concerned that nothing will change, but he said he will work on his actions. I'm still not 100% sure of what to do...

I don't want to live the rest of my life fighting with someone.

alina Posted: May 13, 2003 05:42 PM

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Notsure, I sent you a long FM

jennbaby Posted: May 13, 2003 05:46 PM

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Do you love him?
Is he the man you want to spend the rest of your life with?

Why do you feel unsure? Did I miss another posting?

notsure Posted: May 13, 2003 06:08 PM

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jennbaby, you can read my other post titled Having Doubts to see why I am unsure.

minniebride14 Posted: May 13, 2003 08:23 PM

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Okay, great. Sounds good. Good luck to you!

jennbaby Posted: May 13, 2003 09:03 PM

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112903 Posted: May 13, 2003 09:47 PM

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I am glad he took the first step!!! Good luck on working everything out....

julybride444 Posted: May 13, 2003 10:51 PM

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I wish you the very best of luck~ I hope everything works out ok, maybe a postponing is still in order though since the wedding is a few weeks away (I think it is from the last post?). That'll give you time to be sure that things are really different.

Best wishes!