Having Second thoughts need some help!!!

Soon2BMrsD Posted: Apr 07, 2007 04:09 PM

Having Second thoughts need some help!!!

ok so i posted yesterday about my BM dresses... and well i happen to love 2 dresses... my girls like one better then the other and of course its not the one i love... but ya see...they are paying for it and i didnt think i really cared all that much... so ineed some help..

i know everyone says ' its your wedding do what YOU want' i get that but i dont want to be craknky about it considering my girls are all differnt sizes and shapes i want them all to be comfy!

so heres a pic of my dress and then the 2 bm dresses.. please help me decide (the color is turquoise!)

THANKS!

My dress

BM dress1

BM dress2

jteach711 Posted: Apr 07, 2007 04:11 PM

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Personally I like the 2nd dress better, but I think they would both be fine, its not like the other one is ugly and doesn't go with your dress. I think if all your girls like the one sooo much better, I would just say to let them go for it. JMO

dream426 Posted: Apr 07, 2007 04:12 PM

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I like both dresses. At first I was going to say the first BM dress but then I like the second one also. It is a hard decision. I like both dresses for different reasons.

jgl Posted: Apr 07, 2007 04:13 PM

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i love your dress by the way!!! you look hot!!

anyway. the BM dresses.. im going to be honest.. and of course its JMO

i like parts of both. the blue is really nice but personally i dont like that look of the layered material.

beachbum05 Posted: Apr 07, 2007 04:13 PM

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oooh - its tough.

I picked the blue one. And the reason I did was because the brown one has the rhinestone thingy on it. Don't get me wrong, I LOVEEEEEEEEE that dress (the brown one), but I think the sparkle on it distracts from you and your dress!

YOU wanna be the shining star! Im not saying that you WOULDNT be if your girls picked the brown one, but I think the style of #2 looks great with your dress and the style of your wedding. Beachy and flirty!

Soon2BMrsD Posted: Apr 07, 2007 04:18 PM

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thanks girls.. the dress i love is the blue ruffle one... my girls didnt like it at all so i was kinda being like ok.. whatever you girls want.. so i think im going to be a bit of a bridezilla.. and i just happen to think the blue one goes better with the older style of my dress... and heres a pic of another wedding with the girls in this dress.. and its on a few girls with different shapes.. i just happen to like it.. so well see how the girls feel.. i dont hink they are going to be happy..but hey.. its MY day!

beachbum05 Posted: Apr 07, 2007 04:20 PM

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Posted by Soon2BMrsD

thanks girls.. the dress i love is the blue ruffle one... my girls didnt like it at all so i was kinda being like ok.. whatever you girls want.. so i think im going to be a bit of a bridezilla.. and i just happen to think the blue one goes better with the older style of my dress... and heres a pic of another wedding with the girls in this dress.. and its on a few girls with different shapes.. i just happen to like it.. so well see how the girls feel.. i dont hink they are going to be happy..but hey.. its MY day!

Eh - tell them when THEY get married THEY can pick out whatever THEY want!

Soon2BMrsD Posted: Apr 07, 2007 04:20 PM

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soon2BMrsMcD Posted: Apr 07, 2007 05:18 PM

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Meg---the title of this post scared me!!!

I like the ruffle one! I think they look great in those two pics on every different body. Go with your gut gal!

karen6474 Posted: Apr 07, 2007 06:17 PM

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Meg that is sooo funny b/c i am thinking about that dress also- it seems to flatter everyones body type & thats what i need

femmes Posted: Apr 07, 2007 08:06 PM

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I love the blue dress. That style is flattering on every figure!!!

kimNanthony Posted: Apr 07, 2007 08:08 PM

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I know you don't want to sound bossy but this is your wedding and you should love the dresses your BM will be wearing. I'm not paying for my BM dresses but I still picked it out. It seems like you love the blue dress better and it's your day so everyone should do whatever it takes to make you happy on your day

I Love my bear Posted: Apr 07, 2007 08:18 PM

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Being that your color is Turquoise I like BM dress no. 2. I can't picture the first in that color I think the brooch and the ruching would be too much in Turquoise. So I say no.2!!

Jesaroo2 Posted: Apr 07, 2007 08:23 PM

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def the second one..

but im biased because thats the dress my girls r wearing!!

I am so suprised yours didnt like it since my girls LOVED IT

wierd lol

Collweenie21 Posted: Apr 07, 2007 09:06 PM

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I vote blue!! And I LOVE your dress!

LaurenF Posted: Apr 07, 2007 09:56 PM

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i don't htink either of them are similar to your dress so either is fine.

jessamyn78 Posted: Apr 07, 2007 10:20 PM

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Both are gorgeous but I think the brown dress is more flattering. It will hide flaws and also accentutate the positive in you BM's/

Soon2BMrsD Posted: Apr 08, 2007 02:53 PM

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thanks for all the help girls.. i spoke with my BMs and they are all too funny.. they now said they like the blue dress which is good cuz my mom and i think its the better choice.. but we are concerned about the turquoise color with my dress being so off white.. its really Cream... so were most likely going to use navy blue and HOT pink flowesr like the firstpic i showed.. since fh didnt like my idea of gray tux..so hes good with navy blue pin-stripe... so looks like we have a winner.. im taking one of the heavier bm to take a look at the blue dress this week to see how she looks in it!