he is driving me crazy today

sorry i have to vent.. today is one year until the big day.my soon to be honey was off today.. i spoke to him through out the day and he was laligagin all day doin nothing.. i get home pull into the drive way and he is walking out talking about he's going to his job to b.s. for a few then he has to go do an estimate for a job.. i asked him if he folded the laundry he said no it was still wet this morning.. ok but what time is it now...

i go to the apartment and my puppy has no food.. so i call him... did u forget to feed her too.. he said well she had food in the dish an hour ago.. yea right...

i walk in the laundry room the close arent wet and even if they were there was a basket of dry close that needed to be folded and ontop of all that the dishes werent done..

and to top it off he is going to a card game tonight...

today i should be excited cause its a year till ..and he knows that but instead... im so annoyed at him

sorry had to vent..

Here's some hugs.

And men sometimes stink. Not all men notice things like a one year pre-anniversary thing. We didn't even have one, and FH has been laid back about everything until last month!!

Trust me, as much as it sux now, there will be a fire under his butt eventually about the wedding.

Don't be sorry for venting. That's what we're here for!
I feel your pain......it is tough sometimes to live with a boy...lol...yes I said boy! lol. I always yell at my FI and tell him that he is not a bachelor living in his bachelor pad, so he needs to pitch in too. It is especially hard and stressful when you are trying to plan a wedding. Just hang in there and vent any ol' time you want.

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Posted by Maybride519

Don't be sorry for venting. That's what we're here for!
I feel your pain......it is tough sometimes to live with a boy...lol...yes I said boy! lol. I always yell at my FI and tell him that he is not a bachelor living in his bachelor pad, so he needs to pitch in too. It is especially hard and stressful when you are trying to plan a wedding. Just hang in there and vent any ol' time you want.

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thank u ....its as if anything he says or does or doesnt do is driving me crazy.. maybe its cause work was busy today.. u know paralegals are like attorneys.. we just dont get paid the way the do

to you, boys are so URRRR sometimes....esp. on your unanniversary...

I walked into the same situation today...he was off today & asked me to go to the orthopedieast (spell?) last nite...we were there 3 hours & I came home & was up till 1am doing report card comments for today. But I did it b/c I knew he wanted me there to hear what the dr. said.

Flashforward to today when I get home & 1 thing off my list (take out the garbage is done) NOTHING else....not the dishes (he put) in the sink, not the hallway he promised to paint, not the laundry he said he'd do & NOT any of the calls he said he'd take care of (his acct., a call to his bank).

It gets me sooooooooooo aggravated. I mean wouldn't it just be easier to do what they have to, then listen to us telling them time & time & time again?!

URRR!

Two and a half years old!

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Posted by Future Pepper

Two and a half years old!

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Bonnie - I was thinking the same thing...