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princess99 Posted: Jan 12, 2004 06:48 AM

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I am so angry! I have a 'friend' that is more of an acquantance, or dshall I say used to be. At my shower she tried to take over, that was the first thing. My BP was trying to just grin and bear it, then this girl had a stomach banding done and she tells me- she looks bettr then me- hello?! I am not overweight the way she is- I lost 65 pounds on WW, and have 20 more to go, and at my heaviest was not nearly as big as her, she must weigh at least 400 or more pounds- I give her credit- she is losing weight,then my invitations go out, and she has the nerve to tell me that the calligraphy is not calligraphy! We paid a lot of money for those invites, and have gotten nothing but compliments on them about how pretty they are and classy looking- which is the way we are aiming for for our wedding. Fh tried to call her to tell her hw upset I was, she only got angry- what do I do? I do not even want her at the wedding- She only recently started to act like this. You should have heard this message on my machine about the calligraphy- it was cold and calculating! Is this anyway to treat a bride to be? By no means am I a bridezilla! Help!!!

[email protected] Posted: Jan 12, 2004 07:13 AM

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Ummmm...I think I smell an ugly green monster! I know it's hard as anything, but pity her. You are getting married in a few months, you are happy as anything and she is just trying to rain on your parade.

PrincessRose Posted: Jan 12, 2004 09:28 AM

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Next time tell her that you heard about a girl who had a banding who's stomach ended up twisted. She couldn't keep anything down for months and finally ended up in the hospital. The band had to be removed and that girl had to lose her weight the old-fashioned way.

How awful can a person be????

btrflygrl Posted: Jan 12, 2004 10:16 AM

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she is obviously green with envy.....ignore it all and enjoy all the happy people around you.

matt'sprincess Posted: Jan 12, 2004 03:49 PM

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I am so sorry you have to deal with that! You do not need any more undo stress I know I am a March bride too!!

sun86moon Posted: Jan 12, 2004 06:01 PM

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As I was reading I was thinking of what a jealous person this girl is. She feels in a way she is losing you so she needs to make herself look better in Her eyes so she is belittling you. Since you are a nice person that is the reason she is doing it to you. If you were a B-----, she would never act that way to you.
I know people just like her, so you be happy and don't let her upset you and ruin your beautiful day!

JodiBabe Posted: Jan 12, 2004 07:42 PM

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Princess,

I told you what you should do about her! She is VERY Jealous!!! She already lost me as a friend to Husband & is now losing you to a Husband and she doesn't have even the slimmest possibility of EVER having one! The B***H that she is! She says hurtful things ALL the time!!!!

If you don't want her there as you obviously don't then DON'T have her there.

BTW, I got our invite today and they are beautiful & classy just like you & your wedding will be the same. Just take whatever steps are necessary to make sure the ugly doesn't ruin your day!!!!!!

Can I send my RSVP back on March 27th? LOL!

Love Ya!

Janine24 Posted: Jan 12, 2004 07:44 PM

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WOAH!!!!!!!!!! she needs to calm down... what a mean girl

Rob-luvs-me Posted: Jan 12, 2004 07:44 PM

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PrincessRose will back me on this one - but I hate to say but I think that all the psycho's come out of the wood work when people plan a wedding.

I am sorry that happened to you!

sun86moon Posted: Jan 12, 2004 07:45 PM

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I absolutely agree. You definitely find out a lot about people when you plan a wedding!

JodiBabe Posted: Jan 12, 2004 07:52 PM

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The really sad thing is this same girl did the same kind of crap to me although not as much as she's doing now!

princess99 Posted: Jan 12, 2004 09:18 PM

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Thank u for all backing me up and making a situation seem a lot better- Jodi, I am glad u liked my invite!!!! And she was mean to u with your wedding also.