help

lmykolyn12305 Posted: Jun 25, 2005 11:31 PM

help

Hey girls

I need your help i have one bridesmaids that still didnt get fitted for her dress and i was told to get them there before july 1st. she keeps giving me a story why she cant go and get fitted. i am at the point that i want to kick he rout of it because she is making me upset and i dont know what to do. she was supposed to come in monday but she told me she dont know what time she gets off and stuff so she aske dif she could come friday. well she never came friday and never called me and i waited home all day for her. i cant even call her because she dont have a cell phone and she cant give me her boyfriends number because he will get mad. so what should i do tell her she is out. what would you girls do

lrs2005 Posted: Jun 25, 2005 11:48 PM

Re: help

I would explain to her that
the dress store's deadline to order dresses
is July 1, 2005 and if hers is not
ordered by then, unfortunately
she can no longer be in your
bridal party.

Bunnymonkey Posted: Jun 26, 2005 04:39 PM

Re: help

you need to have a long solid TALK with her, and really ask her if she wants to be in this wedding. People that play games are often acting out subconciously. Maybe she is scared of the financial commitment. Give her an out and see if she takes it. If not, and this continues, ask her to step out.