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Nictoni Posted: Aug 23, 2005 07:51 PM

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For our rehearsal dinner.....We don't have a lot of money and cannot fit everyone in our house (25-28 ppl). Is a buffet cheesy?????

jandt2006 Posted: Aug 23, 2005 07:56 PM

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i dont' think so, you do whatever works for you, as long as your with each other what does it matter.

BHW Posted: Aug 23, 2005 08:01 PM

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No. I don't think anyone has any expectations about the rehearsal dinner. It should be a time to relax and spend quality time with family and close friends since you'll be running around a lot on the wedding day. We've been to dinners the night before weddings which consisted of pizza and sandwiches. I thought it was a nice way for people to meet before the wedding and didn't think any less of them because it wasn't at a restaurant or a sit down meal.

steelersforlife Posted: Aug 23, 2005 08:02 PM

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Nope. Mine will be buffet. The wedding will be formal enough.

SummerBride06 Posted: Aug 23, 2005 08:12 PM

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not cheesy at all!

Marjiesan Posted: Aug 23, 2005 08:21 PM

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Buffet sounds great! it's a great way for people to mingle and learn common interest with each other before the wedding.

You're better than me, I am not even having one. Can't afford it but I cover it up by saying 'you need a rehersal to eat???'
lol:
I am just taking out my couple of out-of-towners to brunch the day before so they can spend the rest of the day shopping in Manhattan and relax before the big day.

concon361 Posted: Aug 23, 2005 08:34 PM

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i don't think so at all...probably wouls be cheaper and you would have more fun!

beautyq115 Posted: Aug 23, 2005 08:34 PM

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Please...my cousin's in laws crammed about 30+ people not including children into their tiny house and served cold cuts and salads..YOURS WILL NOT BE TACKY OR CHEESY!!

SFP0214 Posted: Aug 23, 2005 08:35 PM

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NO.. Nothing is cheesy. It is a RD. It is not supposed to be all crazy. Do what you can and it will be beautiful

jimmysgrl Posted: Aug 23, 2005 08:45 PM

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Nope, we're having a buffet

Faith Posted: Aug 23, 2005 08:47 PM

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No, I think it's a great idea! Enough planning and money is spent on the wedding, buffet will allow everyone to relax!

jportjeff Posted: Aug 23, 2005 09:02 PM

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not at all. I hear butterfields has a great buffet option for a rdinner.

enjft Posted: Aug 23, 2005 10:50 PM

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Not being cheesy at all!

BRIDEMICHELE Posted: Aug 23, 2005 10:54 PM

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Posted by steelersforlife

Nope. Mine will be buffet. The wedding will be formal enough.

I agree! It's not cheesy and the wedding will
be formal enough.

DanaMZ Posted: Aug 24, 2005 12:59 AM

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Not cheesy...My FH wants to have a BBQ at his parent's house!

hmpena Posted: Aug 24, 2005 01:06 AM

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I don't think a buffet is cheesy at all! I think it is a great idea. It can be as formal or casual as you want it to be. And you won't be breaking the bank.