it might be to soon but i know my fiance's friends and no matter what i say they would do the opposite!! they have done it before to other couples. i dont like the whole idea of strip clubs for a bachelor party, why do you have to see a women naked to get married? it just doesnt make sense. so we decided to do a joint party!! but his friends keep bugging me about letting him have a bachelor party, what do i do??
HotAir
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Personally, I could care less if my FH goes to a strip club for a bachelor party. I guess I'm not the jealous type and I'm not worried about him leaving me for a stripper. Try not to think about it so early on anyway.
alison1daland
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FH used to work as a barback and bouncer for a strip club, so I guess i'm not all that worried about it. Plus, we have so much time before anyone will look to do that, that I figure if I worry, I'll worry later, not now.
mishmosh328
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IMO, I could care less if FH goes to strip clubs for his bachelor party. I trust him completly...plus I will have family members there to watch him haha
MaureenM618
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I'm definately NOT okay with the whole strip club thing. I've talked to him about it and we've decided to have bachelor and bachelorette parties but more along the lines of going paintball hunting and a spa day. No strippers for either one of us. I'm not stressing about it now. It's way too far off to worry about it. We both plan to tell our friends our wishes and let them know that we are very serious about it. If our friends choose to disregard our wishes then they don't really care about us or what we want. We have both agreed to leave our party if it goes down that road. My FH's friends are dogs and I don't trust them at all but I do trust my FH to make the right choice.
Every couple is different in their outlook on certain things... His cousin and his cousin's girlfriend watch porn together and go to strip clubs. That's something that the are okay with. I personally am against both things. On the otherhand, they will not allow eachother to look in their cell phones or know any of their passwords for email, myspace, etc... FH and I allow each ther to look at anything we want. We have nothing to hide, so why not.
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Posted by MaureenM618
I'm definately NOT okay with the whole strip club thing. I've talked to him about it and we've decided to have bachelor and bachelorette parties but more along the lines of going paintball hunting and a spa day. No strippers for either one of us. I'm not stressing about it now. It's way too far off to worry about it. We both plan to tell our friends our wishes and let them know that we are very serious about it. If our friends choose to disregard our wishes then they don't really care about us or what we want. We have both agreed to leave our party if it goes down that road. My FH's friends are dogs and I don't trust them at all but I do trust my FH to make the right choice.
Every couple is different in their outlook on certain things... His cousin and his cousin's girlfriend watch porn together and go to strip clubs. That's something that the are okay with. I personally am against both things. On the otherhand, they will not allow eachother to look in their cell phones or know any of their passwords for email, myspace, etc... FH and I allow each ther to look at anything we want. We have nothing to hide, so why not.
