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Ok. Where to start. My mom passed away this mth 9 years ago. My dad just started dating about a year aga. Im ok with this. But his gf has gone way to far this time. She and one of my aunts are planning my shower. Ok thats fine. She emailed my MOH about a mth ago. Asking her for a list of people ect. My MOH never go back to her. So she emailed one of my BM. My BM got back to her and said she will get her a list. Then my BM comp died. So now my dads gf asked me. I got her a list. Now today out of NOWHERE. I comment on her facebook and then she wrote back something a long the lines of my MOH going away and get her tattoo finshed. W T F!!!! And also sayin about me having my shower in dec. My wedding is in Oct. I dont know whats going on. I just feel that she had no right to say anything about my MOH on FACEBOOK. What are we in high school. Im ready to tell my FMIL that I dont want a shower. Ok im done. I just dont know what to do. I want to say something to my dad but, I know that he will side with her. Im so over this right now. Someone please tell me what the right thing is to do. Thanks. Sorry this is so long.

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I dont know why anyone would plan a shower for after the wedding. Maybe it was a typo?

I'm a little confused about what happened. did she write something nasty to your MOH on facebook or about her? I thought you wrote her and she just wrote you back about your MOH getting a tattoo finished? I'm sooo sorry.. I just had a hard time following it... maybe I'm more tired than I thought I was. Is your MOH not available for the shower because she's getting a tattoo finished?

I think you should just talk to your dad's gf. Just to get it over with... if you talk to your dad she will know and feel like you went behind her back. i find that it's usually best to go straight to the person in a very sincere and honest way. just explain your concerns with the december shower.

Sorry - I probably could help better if I understood more.

HTH

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KerriJohnS, I am confused, too. I'm not sure what the situation is, but what I do know is this: Your FMIL should not be on Facebook!!!! What is she 21? Ay, yie, yie! I would def. talk to your dad about it if you don't feel comfortable talking to her about it.

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I am confused too

if all she said was that your MOH went away to get a tattoo finished, then i dont think she said anything bad about her at all. Just stating something she is doing. Did she say something else

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Huh? I think we're all missing something...can you elaborate on what you're upset about?

I'm sure your shower is before your wedding. Maybe she's just joking and trying to throw you off???

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Yeah, that post reaaaaaaaaaaally confused me, too.