Help!!

2010bride2010 Posted: Jul 07, 2009 04:13 PM

Help!!

We were supposed to be leaving to go to Olean, NY tomorrow morning to get ready for My fiances brothers wedding this Saturday. We just got a call an hour ago telling us that the Brides mother passed away. She went to take a nap because she wasnt feeling well, and they went to wake her and she was non responsive. They rushed her to the hospital, and they could not bring her back.

Has anyone been in or know of a similar situation? Have any advice? Know what happens from here in their situation?

Please, both my Fiance and I dont know how to handle this situation.

Thank you so much!

Rachel and Matt

little34 Posted: Jul 07, 2009 04:15 PM

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i would call your FHs brother and see what they plan on doing....they may cancel they may not...it depends on the bride but call...or you can make the trip to be wtih him and be supportive...my goodness what an awful situation!

pa56 Posted: Jul 07, 2009 04:18 PM

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I would still go up there... just to be supportive. They may cancel, they may not. But I would not cancel going up there. Your FH's brother needs his brother for support!

gina409 Posted: Jul 07, 2009 04:47 PM

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i would still go up..te wedding may be postponed but they till might want a shoulder to cry on or help explaining why it waspostponed

im so sorry for their loss

jenturch Posted: Jul 07, 2009 04:56 PM

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Oh wow. I think you should still go. Now is the time they need family the most. They will figure out what to do about the wedding-they are probably in shock right now.

WeddingGem Posted: Jul 07, 2009 05:31 PM

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Posted by jenturch

Oh wow. I think you should still go. Now is the time they need family the most. They will figure out what to do about the wedding-they are probably in shock right now.

i totally agree