help- bachlorette party??

I was at a party this weekend and It was so obvious that my Maide of honor was talking to my 2 future sister in laws about my bachlorette night- I know because one came up to me and said WHAT IS IT THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO DO FOR YOUR BACHOLORETTE PARTY? I said honestly I have not even thought about it.. she was throwing at me Vegas, Florida, etc.. all these elaborate things, and I really had no clue what I want to do.
until florida was thrown in there I LOVE florida and my brother has a hook up at the Versace mansion( now spa)
But my question is .... is that I 2 other girls in my party that I know will absolutley not go away...
do you think its thougthless of me to say were going to florida - knowing that they wont come- or do I do something more reserved and do a city night? Or JUST 2 BACHOLORETTE nights....
one with them - then one with who ever wants to go away?

this is difficult.

i think YOU should do what YOU want to do - as long as you are not disappointed when some girls don't come. As long as you have fun that is all that matters!

I am not a big fan of having two bachelorette paties bc I feel it puts too much of a financial strain on the girls who CAN make it to the one in florida

I don't go away and my friends know that. So if they plan an away bachelorette party I know they are planning it because they want to go there NOT because they are trying to leave me out or anything!

I agree. I told me girls that I do not expect anyone to go, but I hope they could make it....and if they couldn't we would do a girl's dinner out (or if you want to do a big city night, go for it). BUT remember this is YOUR bachelorette party, not theirs..and you need to do what YOu want to do. If they're bitchy about then they're bitches...sorry!