Ok so I know we have been down this road a few times with other people, but how do I tell a BM that I don't think she should be in my wedding? We used to be best friends but she became really distant over some other drama, not related to our friendship. She is showing no interest at all in my wedding planning, other people have noticed her behavior and have even questioned me about it. I want to replace her with someone else who will fit in better with the other members ofthe BP. However we work together and that is where the problem is, if I remove her then I know work will be miserable for me, sometimes she is my supervisor!! What do I do????? Sorry so long, but please give advice?!?!?!?
mskittynj
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sticky situation!!!! I would proceed with caution!!! There's a reason why you asked her to be in your wedding in the first place...Talk to her about how you feel first!!! Then if things don't change just be honest with her.... XOXOXO Kitty
Future Mrs.
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very difficult situation. In my opinion, you should keep her in your bridal party. Just accept that not everyone is going to be as involved as you wished. Just build her up......if she does anything (even if its just show up somewhere) tell her how much it means to you and how great she is........ to kick someone out of your BP at this point will cause a lot of bad feelings......and maybe even your job. Just dwell in the great things your other bm's are doing. Besides, everyone has at least one BM who is like this. Its goes with the territory