he just doesnt want to. hes having eye surgery in november and hes chubbier than he has been lately, and he just claims that hes in no mood to take pics. furthermore he claims that since well have so many great pics taken at the wedding, why take a round of 'not as good' pics beforehand, even though they are included in price from our day of photographer (B rett M athhews).
help! they really mean a lot to me. ive considered postponing until the spring when hes thinner and the surgery is complete. but i realllly want fall pics since were having a fall wedding. i also dont have a real pic for STD's which i wanted to send out around Xmas time.
i really want to respect his feelings. im a photography freak and he puts up with A LOT of pics from me. also he said we can go upstate soon and do some of our own pics but not with a real photographer. so hes not being pure evil lol, hes just being difficult.
should i suck it up and wait until the spring where hes more likely to want to do it, or is there anything i can say or do to change his mind?? Help!!
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Re: Help! FH Won't Take Engagement Pics!
I would say rather than aggrevate him completely and risk him declaring that he is not doing it at all, hold off until spring. Our situation is exactly the opposite...I'm doing Weight Watchers right now and would prefer to wait until spring, but FH wants the fall leaves. I figured I have gotten my was in 90% of the decisions for the wedding, so i'll let him win this one....
