Help-Have you ever thrown a bridesmaid out of the wedding party?

pa1220 Posted: May 30, 2008 04:54 PM

Help-Have you ever thrown a bridesmaid out of the wedding party?

Hey

I am on the fence on throwing someone out of my bridal party. This bridesmaid ruined my bachelorette party and is constantly making me feel guilty for getting married. Like its my problem she is broke and wasting her money on alcohol and useless stuff(not my problem). Girls i don't know what to do?

JodyLC Posted: May 30, 2008 05:05 PM

Re: Help-Have you ever thrown a bridesmaid out of the wedding party?

Seriously i asked one of mine to step down a couple months ago she was basically taking over the wedding as if it was hers... if i made a choice she would call me and fight with me and fight with me in front of people telling me to do it a different way she even went as far as e-mailing my other BM's & MOh telling them I changed my mind on the dress for them (she didnt like the dress I picked... So all in all i asked her to step down.

jesca Posted: May 30, 2008 05:09 PM

Re: Help-Have you ever thrown a bridesmaid out of the wedding party?

if you're going to, i would do it now and not wait any longer. as long as you can justify it to yourself, go for it. its your wedding not hers. if she's going to negatively effect it, she doesnt deserve to be a part of it.

chicky724 Posted: May 30, 2008 05:15 PM

Re: Help-Have you ever thrown a bridesmaid out of the wedding party?

Posted by JodyLC

Seriously i asked one of mine to step down a couple months ago she was basically taking over the wedding as if it was hers... if i made a choice she would call me and fight with me and fight with me in front of people telling me to do it a different way she even went as far as e-mailing my other BM's & MOh telling them I changed my mind on the dress for them (she didnt like the dress I picked... So all in all i asked her to step down.

That is crazy, I can't believe she tried to change the dress!!!

I would have a problem keeping her as a friend, never mind in my BP!

JodyLC Posted: May 30, 2008 05:22 PM

Re: Help-Have you ever thrown a bridesmaid out of the wedding party?

Posted by chicky824

Posted by JodyLC

Seriously i asked one of mine to step down a couple months ago she was basically taking over the wedding as if it was hers... if i made a choice she would call me and fight with me and fight with me in front of people telling me to do it a different way she even went as far as e-mailing my other BM's & MOh telling them I changed my mind on the dress for them (she didnt like the dress I picked... So all in all i asked her to step down.

That is crazy, I can't believe she tried to change the dress!!!

I would have a problem keeping her as a friend, never mind in my BP!

yeah we don't speak anymore... they always say you find out who your friends are when they are in the BP...I did!!

LoveRocks Posted: May 30, 2008 05:32 PM

Re: Help-Have you ever thrown a bridesmaid out of the wedding party?

Get rid of her now before it gets worse and closer to the wedding. You really don't need the added aggravation and negativity from someone who should be supportive.