help I cant sleep

DINAAMATUCCIO Posted: Aug 06, 2007 11:59 PM

help I cant sleep

Oh where do I start ... I am a worry wart... Neurotic... Stressed out.. hypocondraict ...pestamist. ok so my son is sleeping at my sisters house and he does every so often because my son and her son are very close... however I hate her boyfriend and I thought that they werent togetther anymore but when I asked my nephew he said he slept there last night and even though he wasnt there before I am afraid he might go to my sisters house and since he knows I hate him be mean to my son ... I tried to call my sisters house again 30 minutes ago but they didnt answer, i guess they are sleeping, i spoke to them at 8:30 and everything was fine but I just get bad thoughts in my mind, then I get these bad pains in my stomach, and I cant sleep ... am I over reacting!? I want to tell my sister in the morning that if her boyfriend is going to be there I dont think its a good I dea for my son to be there at the same time... I think it bothers me the most that nobody picked upi the phone and if my sister did she would probably think I was crazy checking up on my son at 11:30pm.. but I am crazyyyyy

SOTHISISLOVE53109 Posted: Aug 07, 2007 12:02 AM

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I'm still up....if you are that worried...and if she doesn't live far take a ride over there and see if the boyfriends car is there...just to make sure everything is ok...im sure it is and your son is fine...but i understand how you feel. He is probably is dreamland right now.

go to sleep morning will be here before you know it.

egem523 Posted: Aug 07, 2007 12:03 AM

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I am pretty sure everything is ok. Maybe everyone is sleeping. Do not worry he will be ok. If you feel that you do not want your son around him then let your sister know how you feel. So you can have piece of mind

DINAAMATUCCIO Posted: Aug 07, 2007 12:21 AM

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Posted by SOTHISISLOVE53109

I'm still up....if you are that worried...and if she doesn't live far take a ride over there and see if the boyfriends car is there...just to make sure everything is ok...im sure it is and your son is fine...but i understand how you feel. He is probably is dreamland right now.

go to sleep morning will be here before you know it.

I was thinking about driving passed her house but she lives a half hour away from me and if FH wakes up he'll be like *** are you doing!!!?? ugh I guess you ladies are right morning will be here before i know it .. i hope ... did I mention I think I have an ulcer from the way i stress aboout everything!!!!!!!

mdawg Posted: Aug 07, 2007 07:27 AM

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oy dina... well as soon as you wake up you should call and check if everything is alright. As a mother, you have every right to say that you dont want your son there if her boyfriend is gonna be there too.

i hope everything worked out... im sure it did!

kabo0831 Posted: Aug 07, 2007 08:19 AM

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first i think everythin will be fine and second please go to the GI dr and get check for that ulcer. That isnt good to have and you can get sicker if its not taken care of also with you worrying it will make it worst... Feel better and im sure he is fine.

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Aug 07, 2007 09:58 AM

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How is everything dina? I just saw your post this morning!! I hope you are ok!

SOTHISISLOVE53109 Posted: Aug 07, 2007 10:07 AM

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I hope you are doing better this morning Dina, How did everything go? Did you speak to your son today?

If it really bothers you that much, he is your child - ask your sister is the bf is going to be there and if he is don't have him stay. It will help you avoid not needed stress and a flair up of your ulcer!

DINAAMATUCCIO Posted: Aug 07, 2007 10:41 AM

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My stomach still hurts its like a burning feeling in my upper stomach... see FH told me to stop stressing about so much all the time if I want to have a long life with him because stress kills... I should go to the doctor soon...
and Joel was fine they had a sleep over with him my nephew and two more little boys from next door and he said he had a great time ... and No boyfriend was there! see I told you i worry too much!

SOTHISISLOVE53109 Posted: Aug 07, 2007 11:42 AM

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Relax Mama!!!! we told you everything was fine and your son was having a ball! RELAX, BREATHE

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Aug 07, 2007 11:46 AM

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Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO

My stomach still hurts its like a burning feeling in my upper stomach... see FH told me to stop stressing about so much all the time if I want to have a long life with him because stress kills... I should go to the doctor soon...
and Joel was fine they had a sleep over with him my nephew and two more little boys from next door and he said he had a great time ... and No boyfriend was there! see I told you i worry too much!

If the worrying is that bad and afftects lots of aspects of your life (and your health is in jeopardy).. I would go to the doc and see if you can get some anxiety meds

dazies1011 Posted: Aug 07, 2007 05:15 PM

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Just read this.... how did everything go? How are you?

DonnaPWhite1124 Posted: Aug 07, 2007 07:49 PM

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wow i just saw this post now...Im sorry I didnt see it earlier

So did everything go ok? is your son alright?

olivia30 Posted: Aug 08, 2007 07:56 PM

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I have a seven year old who stays with her father in Maryland so I know EXACTLY how you feel. Thank goodness the boyfriend was not at the house, but next time express to your sister that you do not want the boyfriend to come over when your son is there. If she cannot guarantee that the boyfriend will not be there, then have your nephew come over to your house. It would save you lots of worrying in the nd.