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Help! Is this vow overload for the ceremony????

Bridex100 Posted:

Help! Is this vow overload for the ceremony????

Are you supposed to have all of the following?

declaration of intent (When you say, 'I do')
exchange of vows (We wanted to personalize vows like when Brad Pitt and Jennifer Anniston promised to make banana milshakes for the other..)
unity candle ceremony
and then exchange of rings (With this ring I thee wed)

I don't know of declaration of intent is in place of exchange of vows or you are supposed to say, 'I do' right before the exchange of rings.

Help! I am so clueless!

What is your ceremony order?
Flutterbye922 Posted:

Re: Help! Is this vow overload for the ceremony????

I have no idea, that looks normal?????

Kara and Todd Posted:

Re: Help! Is this vow overload for the ceremony????

Nope, that's about right.

Not overload at all - I've always seen all of those things. If you don't write your own vows, you'd usually still take vows (just the standard ones) anyway. Sounds good to me.
tricia3381 Posted:

Re: Help! Is this vow overload for the ceremony????

are u getting married at a church?

Kara and Todd Posted:

Re: Help! Is this vow overload for the ceremony????

Ask your officiant regarding the order of things. He or she will be able to tell you.

erdbeere Posted:

Re: Help! Is this vow overload for the ceremony????

we're doing all of that... expept we're doing a sand ceremony instead of unity candle. I was wondering the same thing, but actually don't care becasue I want to say 'i do' and I also wanna say my own vows to FH.
Kara and Todd Posted:

Re: Help! Is this vow overload for the ceremony????

Whether or not you write your own vows, there is usually a declaration of intent AND vows (either unique or the standard) at ceremonies -- so I don't think it's 'vow overload' - At least, it's how I've always seen it.

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