Ok Ladies...I need ur opinion.... and I can take criticism well ...
I know that I am going to get my moms suit custom made for that day. And pay for her hair and get her shoes...just the works. Just a thank you for being my mom!
But do I have to do the same for FMIL
and what do I say when she asks about what I'm doing for her?
Ann 52409
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I wouldn't do the same thing but, i would do something nice or give her a little gift... especially if she is helping out with the wedding
Ms SunnShinne
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Posted by Soon2bmrsP
I wouldn't do the same thing but, i would do something nice or give her a little gift... especially if she is helping out with the wedding
lol what if she doesnt help with the wedding n i still do not want to do anything???
dazies1011
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I wouldn't do anything cause your mom is YOUR MOM. If you feel bad have Fh do it for his mom, if he wants to. I am going to do something for my mom cause she is my mom and even though she can't do much for me she is going to because I am her daughter. FMIL isn't helping for the wedding and if for some reason she does, then FH can do something.
egem523
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I will be proably doing the same for my mother but not for his. I think you should be involved in help picking her outfit but not feel obligated to pick up tab. Your FH should see from your example and want to do the same for his mother. You could guys can all go one day out to pamper your mothers and help pick there outfits. Make him seem like the one who wants to do this for his mom.
lookitscassie
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i wouldnt do that for MIL.. but i would get her a nice little gift
NYMetsBride
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I am not doing anything for my FMIL because I know she is not going to help in my wedding planning. My mother is my mother and I would do anything for her. If FH wants to do something for his mother than he is more than welcomed to.
Ms SunnShinne
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All u ladies are on the same page as me. THANKS FOR UR Opinions and ur advice it did not go on def ears.
meli722
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I would do all that for mine but ot for his, maybe give his a small gift .
MRSin2009
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my FMIL is not going to help and I wouldn't do the same for her as my mom who is helping.
My FMIL also lives in Cyrpus!
Ms SunnShinne
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Ok ladies...I dunno after my mini crisis I decided to let my grudge against FMIL go. I know things she did was wrong but u know what I'ma keep that in mind and be CIVIL! Because I was sureeellyyy not being civil before I havent seen her in over a month after I had an all out war.
FH knows and understand..but the bottomline is she is still not going to get the same treatment as my mother!
stephlovesseyi
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No you don't, although it would be a nice gesture. SHe also does not have to know that you are doing it for your mom.
kabo0831
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i dont think you would have to unless she does something for you special before the wedding
little34
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i wouldn't do the same thing because your mom is your mom and you need to do more for her. Maybe you fh would want to do something for his mom but if not maybe just pay for her makeup and hair.
