Ok ladies so my MOH is planning my bach party. I am very upset about it... I def. didn't want strippers or crazy club crap but I want to have fun!
Here's what I know.. . there is no limo, only a town car for me and her and then everyone else has to find their own way. .We are having Pizza @ my house before we go .I will be home by 11 pm
NO WAY!! MY FH's party is like 3 days long and I'm getting a 4 hour trip with no food or booze?? Really??? I don't want to sound ungrateful but I am really disappointed! FH says he'll pay for a limo for me and everyone else and to tell her to come up with a new plan.... I don't know what to say to her w/o being a b*tch!
dajc23
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Oh no thats horrible!!!! I would talk to her and just tell her how you feel. Maybe suggest a girls day/night out. For mine I don't want strippers or to go get sloppy drunk at a bar. I want a nice day at the spa, wine tasting out east and then a nice dinner with some drinks at night. If that sounds like something along the lines of what you want. I would mention it to her or your BMs and maybe they can come up with a better idea..the one she has sounds like no fun!
Mici n KC
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What if FH talked to her to find out what she was planning? Do you think maybe she's joking around with you?
Mmnnng
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I know she's not kidding cause my other BM hate the idea but she just kinda went and planned everything on her own! Trying to get them to change it...no luck so far!
PattyK
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That's a tough one!!! Why not have FH call her and say that he wants to pay for the limo for everyone so that nobody has to worry about drinking & driving. Maybe after she takes you out you can have all of the girls over toy our place for drinks and movies almost like a pj party.
SOTHISISLOVE53109
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Oh no that doesnt sound like much fun....why don't you make some suggestions after all it is your party. What about going to a spa for the weekend and whats the big deal if the girls take you out to eat...I would def. put your foot down about the strippers if you feel strongly about that...
Are the rest of the girls ok with whats going on? She is your MOH so she should take what you want into consideration!
Good Luck! Let us know how you make out
diva7531
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How many people in BP? Are they broke? Is that the reason for the town car instead of the Limo, I would call meeting and discuss what you want and tell them to collectively plan it!!!!
Mmnnng
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I don't know the reason for it...I just think its crazy! There are only 2 other BMs but I said from the start that if money is the issue, let me know and I will pay for whatever needs to be paid for!
My other BM is on the phone with her now so keep your fingers crossed!
little34
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Oh no...I was in my friends wedding party and her sister through her a LAME party!! We went out to dinner and that was it...I was all set to go out dancing and get her a little tipsy.
I would try to drop hints like maybe if there was a place you wanted to go or something in particular that you wanted to do. Or have your mom or Fh tell her that you are really hoping for such and such...that way your not coming off as a b*tch.
I can't believe that some MOH's don't go all out for this... I can understand if it wasn't your style but she should know you want more then what she is doing. Ugh...
