Help - Rehearsal Dinner invitations

dubliner Posted: Apr 15, 2003 08:36 PM

Help - Rehearsal Dinner invitations

We have some people in the wedding party who are not married / engaged, but have girlfriends - who do we address the RD invite to ?

LnP2003 Posted: Apr 15, 2003 08:37 PM

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depends.... you inviting them as a couple?

dubliner Posted: Apr 15, 2003 08:47 PM

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Well I don't know what the 'right' thing to do is - they are both invited, the girl is only invited bc she's dating the guy, and I don't have addresses for the girls - should I get addresses?

NYCMeghan Posted: Apr 15, 2003 08:48 PM

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I'd just put both names on the invite and address to the BP member.

LnP2003 Posted: Apr 15, 2003 08:50 PM

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nah.... i would send it to the guy & guest!

wacky Posted: Apr 15, 2003 08:50 PM

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Dubliner are you inviting all with guests.
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'Im just addressing invite to person in BP unless they have significant other. Then I will write to person in BP and their significant others name

NYCMeghan Posted: Apr 15, 2003 08:51 PM

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what if they break up between now and then and you're stuck with a stranger at the rehearsal dinner?

dubliner Posted: Apr 15, 2003 09:16 PM

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aaah - I'm huessing all the different answers mean anything is OK - we are having a very casual dinner too

I think it will be BP member, gf name, BP members address

thanks

MelTodd604 Posted: Apr 15, 2003 09:25 PM

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Well my FH is a Fireman, so I have to invite some of his friends from the firehouse, and most of them aren't married so i'm not inviting them with a guest cause they have a new girl friend each month. I dont want girls at my wedding I don't know. I feel its the right thing to do. If u have to invite the person with a guest and u don't know the guest just put.. EX: (Mr. John Smith and Guest) good Luck!

jennbaby Posted: Apr 15, 2003 09:26 PM

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I addressed mine same as I did my wedding invites.

dubliner Posted: Apr 15, 2003 09:27 PM

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Jenn

MY invites were to the person (on the outside) and the inner envelope had 'and Guest'. Did you do that?

jennbaby Posted: Apr 15, 2003 09:27 PM

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Mell how funny! My ex was a NYC Fireman too & most (not all) fireman have new flings each month from what I witnessed in the firehouse & at Fireman balls etc!

jennbaby Posted: Apr 15, 2003 09:29 PM

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No Helen my RD invites are not formal. I jst had an outer envelope & addressed outside who was invited.
For example my GM & his girlfriend I put
Mr Daniel XXXXX and Ms. Janene XXXXX

or married GM & wife:
Mr & Mrs. Kevin XXXXX