I don't know what is going on. I am second guessing every decision I have made so far. The only thing I am 100% positive on is my florist!! I am even thinking i bought the wrong dress. I am stressing when I don't need to be. Any words of wisdom???
GinaZ
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trust your gut! You obviously booked them for a reason. Why are you second guessing? Did any of them do anything to make you feel this way?
Miblove
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sounds like me!
Ugh, I just try not to think avbout it
dancinmyazoff
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It happens to everyone I've noticed....even I did that!!!!
laurak102476
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Posted by GinaZ
trust your gut! You obviously booked them for a reason. Why are you second guessing? Did any of them do anything to make you feel this way?
Nope..everyone has been good. I think the thing I have been most worried about is my photography, (A Candid Image) because not many people have used them. I just wosh I would have done more research for some things, that's all...
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I don't know what is going on. I am second guessing every decision I have made so far. The only thing I am 100% positive on is my florist!! I am even thinking i bought the wrong dress. I am stressing when I don't need to be. Any words of wisdom???
I do this all the time.....a few things I've changed (like my centerpices, I was beginning to have nightmares about them) and sometimes I just needed a slap in the face and a 'GET A GRIP GIRL!!' and I was all good.
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Well...I probably do not have enough experience with this wedding planning to be giving advice. However...I can say thay I see myself doing the same thing. I always have to remind myself why I chose XYZ in the first place because there was a reason. That makes me feel better. Also, I find it helpful to remember that as long as my family and friends are there to celebrate this day with me...I could not care less about the other stuff. It all trivial comapred to what this day is all about. But it is so easy to get wrapped up in all of it!
You chose everything for a reason. Go with your gut and you will havea wonderful wedding!!
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Trust all of your decisions. You booked the vendors for some reason. It is normal to feel this way but don't worry. Trust what you have done so far.
laurak102476
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Thanks girls....I guess since we are paying for everything on our own, I just want everything to be as perfect as it can be...
You guys are the best...
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Go try your dress on again! I was having second thoughts about mine too, but then I went to try it on and fell in love with it all over again... in fact, go 'try on' all of the things you booked... go check out your RH again, look at your Photog's website and read reviews on your DJ/band.... all of those things will help you fall back in love with your choices and remind you why you chose them.
love2plan1
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I agree, its normal to second guess, especially when you end up seeing so many things you like. Its okay, you picked your original things for a reason
GinaZ
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Posted by GinaZ
trust your gut! You obviously booked them for a reason. Why are you second guessing? Did any of them do anything to make you feel this way?
Nope..everyone has been good. I think the thing I have been most worried about is my photography, (A Candid Image) because not many people have used them. I just wosh I would have done more research for some things, that's all...
Well did you do a search on here about them? maybe also call them and ask them for references. Im sure they would be happy to provide them to you! But Im sure they are fine! But calling people may put your mind at ease.
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I'm doing the same thing! Everyone has told me to try and adjust my focus. As for the dress, I was second guessing mine so i went and tried it and a couple others on again. Once again ,it was my favorite one. Try not to stress to much. The day that my wedding makes me cry is the day I cancel my wedding. It's not worth tears!! It's five hours and no matter what happens its going to be the greatest day. If all else fails.... go and get a massage! They always relax me
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ok listen...everyyyyyyyyybody does this. But do you know what it comes down to...
Firstly Its just a wedding....and your going to marry the man you love., in whatever dress you wear...your a bride everyone will love your dress...no matter what, you are going to be beautiful and your FH will think so as well...its just a white dress lol
Secondly....your dress is gourgeous....and I think the thing is you dont have the dresss in ur posession..so you can keep trying it on to make sure you are 100% about it......
Thirdly..STOP looking at dresses....because if you sit there and analyze every dress...u are going to wind up driving yourself nuts..
Lastly....Take a break from planning....if you are really hating yourself for picking certain vendors., a dress, etc....take a break and re-evaluate ur wedding day..im sure you'll know what you want.
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Posted by AMGBride2008
Go try your dress on again! I was having second thoughts about mine too, but then I went to try it on and fell in love with it all over again... in fact, go 'try on' all of the things you booked... go check out your RH again, look at your Photog's website and read reviews on your DJ/band.... all of those things will help you fall back in love with your choices and remind you why you chose them.
that's exactly what i was going to say. it's great advice. there are reasons you booked these people. everything will be amazing!!
and it's totally normal to feel the way you do.
TommysWife08
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like all the brides above me have said - TRUST YOUR GUT!!!!
look at your vendor's work again, try your dress on again - do whatever you need to do to settle your mind!!!!
dont worry - your gut decision is the best!! and i have felt the same way you do about certain vendors if it makes you feel better!!
Mrs. V 2008
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don't second guess yourself! although its normal..don't worry everything will turn out perfect! trust your gut!!
bettybcafe
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Its normal...trust me..we all go through it. I am still going through it and theres only 23 more dys to my wedding lol...dont think about it...you made the choice for a reason..dont second guess yourself..
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I know how you feel. I had to stop looking in magazines at dresses b/c I was making myself crazy! There was obviously something you loved about your dress so I would stick with it. You most likely just want everything to be perfect and you are over-worrying. Don't fret- it will all be perfect.
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like everyone else on here, i can totally understand how you feel! i think everyone does it. I have second guessed everything from my wedding date (which i changed 3 times), my dress (changed once), my shoes (almost changed), RH (almost changed).....and the list goes on.....the problem is that there are so many good choices out there that you start to doubt yourself. in the end, it is your wedding and you will be happy on that day no matter what. there will be too much going on to think about the minor details, and no one else is going to notice, or care either. dont worry girl!
