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Help - Second Thoughts!

DayBeforeThanksgiving Posted:

Help - Second Thoughts!

Scared you huh? Bet you thought I was talking about my FH? NO WAY!!!! I am actually talking about my dress. I bought my dress a few months ago, and I have always been in love with this other one... Has anyone else ever had this happen? I'm nervous!!! I think I have to get it out of my system and try the other dress on. But what happens if I love it?

The first and last pics are of the dress I want, and the middle one is the one I bought.... Keep in mind the one I bought, you can't see the back of it and it's gorgeous! Plus the picture is alot more flattering on the one I want...
nov.bride Posted:

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I feel for you, b/c I went through the same thing and ended losing the $$$$ I put down on the 1st dress and bought a 2nd dress.

WHat really decided for me, was I went to a bridal store that had both dresses and brought a friend and tried both . It got to the point where I HATED my 1st dress on e.

THey both look pretty but its hard to see the pic in the 1st dress.

You have to be happy- @ least retry your 1st dress.

Good luck& keep us posted
DayBeforeThanksgiving Posted:

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I'm actually glad to hear that. I thought I was being difficult... now the hard part is.... I can't seem to find it anywhere!!!! They gave me the stores taht carry Mary's Bridal, but nobody seems to have it. Has anyone seen this dress? Or even better, tried it on?

And in all honesty, which one do you guys like better?
nov.bride Posted:

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check RK bridal in the city- that s where I did al my craziness- definetly bring a friend who is blunt and honest.

HOnestly, I can't tell from the 1st pic-
DayBeforeThanksgiving Posted:

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I just realized, they are both pics of the back of the dress.... sorry!!! I'll fix it now.

DayBeforeThanksgiving Posted:

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bump

halfpintny Posted:

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OK...I'll be honest...keeping in mind that I haven't actually SEEN you in either...I love the one you bought...the middle one right? The one where it's gathered in the middle? I LOVE IT!!!! You might want to try Commack Wedding Center...I heard them saying they have the whole line of dresses

Robeymuse Posted:

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I like the one you bought better

AJsMommy122 Posted:

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Posted by Robeymuse

I like the one you bought better



I agree its really beautiful!! I think whenever you are having second thoughts about your dress ( b/c we all do no matter how gorgeous the dress) you should go back and try it on and remember why you fell in love with it and see how great you look in it!
12-3Princess Posted:

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I honestly like the one you bought better! I love it!
Its beautiful, elegant, and different. PERFECT.

you're going to be stunning.
DayBeforeThanksgiving Posted:

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You guys are so sweet... thank you so much for all of your help! It's been on my mind for a while. I found the dress finally - it's in Lynbrook. I'm going to try it on and try my dress I bought on again. I'll let you know what happens!

Thanks again, you guys are so helpful!
cantwait2bewed Posted:

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Stick with the one you bought. It is gooooooooooooorgeous.

Bunnymonkey Posted:

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They are both similar in design - I would get the second one if it was a COMPLETELY different style, but it's not. I would stick with what you have. It's really very beautiful!

ETA: Maybe the fact that you have not been able to find it is a SIGN!!
JacnRob729 Posted:

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honestly....i like the 2nd one better. Its beautiful and unique

Bebalina Posted:

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Posted by Robeymuse

I like the one you bought better



ditto
dita531 Posted:

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I like the 2nd one better. I second guess my gown, bought another one and couldn't be happier. I just can't find anyone to buy the 1st one so I did waste money.

DCSAAB06 Posted:

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I like the one you purchased the best! So pretty! JMO
neesiepie Posted:

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I LOOOOOOOOVE the one you bought MUCH better than the one you are thinking of! Stay with your first choice!
lillian771 Posted:

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I really like your dress better than the other one! Its very different and very beautiful. I wouldn't change a thing!

DayBeforeThanksgiving Posted:

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Thank you all again... honestly, I can't tell you how much you guys are helping me! I guess I needed fellow bride-to-be's to help me with my decision... Like I said before, the back is really amazing.... wish I had a pic!!!!

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