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Help! Tipping the Banquet Manager...

TracyInQueens Posted:

Help! Tipping the Banquet Manager...

and if so, how much?

Thanks.
nylisa Posted:

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We tipped ours $520 (which was about $3 a person).

J.Lo24 Posted:

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$250 was her fee already added into the contract and we gave her an extra $300 on top of that.

Nikki10-12-03 Posted:

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We tipped him $550 they say you it should be $2-$3 per person

MsKitty1274 Posted:

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Sorry-
Is Banquet Manager different than Matre D?
suven Posted:

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WHOA!!!!

I did not tip my banquet manager. I KNOW that he made a cut out of my per head fee.

But, I did tip my Maitre D $300 because he did an excellent job- he even got down on one knee to present my mom with her surprise birthday cake!
jsb1ot Posted:

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I know that we need to tip the Maitre D, but the banquet manager????? I don't know about that.
I feel that every person who is involved in my wedding planning needs to be tip. When does this tipping stops
ThongLori Posted:

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$2-3 a person is standard -- oops that is for maitre'd!

BriBri529 Posted:

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I never heard of tipping the BM, just rge Maitre D

Charly Posted:

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Posted by BriBri529

I never heard of tipping the BM, just rge Maitre D



sorry but what the heck is the difference between a banquet manager and maitre d? Are they really 2 different people or do different halls call them different things. Sorry I'm confused!!!
MsKitty1274 Posted:

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Posted by Oct04Bride


Posted by BriBri529

I never heard of tipping the BM, just rge Maitre D



sorry but what the heck is the difference between a banquet manager and maitre d? Are they really 2 different people or do different halls call them different things. Sorry I'm confused!!!



Banquet Manager is usually the person you met with to book the hall, gave payments to, have meeting with about menu, give final head count to and final payment too.

Maitre D is the person who is 'in charge' of your wedding. Kind of overseer of the goings on.

Am I right?
suven Posted:

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Posted by MsKitty1274


Posted by Oct04Bride


Posted by BriBri529

I never heard of tipping the BM, just rge Maitre D



sorry but what the heck is the difference between a banquet manager and maitre d? Are they really 2 different people or do different halls call them different things. Sorry I'm confused!!!



Banquet Manager is usually the person you met with to book the hall, gave payments to, have meeting with about menu, give final head count to and final payment too.

Maitre D is the person who is 'in charge' of your wedding. Kind of overseer of the goings on.

Am I right?



Yup, the Maitre D is basically the 'head waiter' at the wedding reception...
nferrandi Posted:

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You do NOT need to tip the BM, they make a commission for booking your party.

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