Help with last minute receptial hall suggestions?

Hi Everyone - Please help! I am at my wits end with looking for reception halls. I have been trying to find something 'different' - classy, elegant, impressive & not too overdone or gaughty - maybe I am being too picky?? I am hoping to find something around $100/pp all inclusive with tax & tip. I will be guaranteeing 125 people minimum for a Friday night, but will probably invite 165 so it will need to accommodate up to around that # of people. I was really leaning toward the OldField Club in Setauket, but nowt I'm not sure. Other places that I have looked at are:

Crescent Beach Club - (liked it, too expensive)
Vanderbuilt Mansion - (liked it, but not sure)
Atlantica - (loved, too expensive)
Raphael - (way too expensive)
Thatched Cottage - (not impressed)
Harrison House - (pretty, too expensive)
Beach Club Estate - (not impressed)
Metropolitan Club - (liked, but not a fit for me)
EastWind Caterers - (liked, but unsure, not a favorite)

Outside of this, I have also looked at about 8 places in Westchester which is where my family is from. So I am driving myself nuts! I am trying to book for June 2006, so I am running out of time. Can anyone give me some suggestions of a place that I might have overlooked? Also, any feedback on OldField would be appreciated. I like it, but I'm wondering if my guests would like something a little more fancy vs the OldField's quaint/simple style. Sorry for the long post, but I am getting desperate . Thanks - Laura